reason been for the past five month i have been playing pregnant and i think it is getting out of controll.plzzzzz give me some idea on how to go about telling him.
2006-11-01 11:33:58 · 30 answers · asked by kay j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
oh my, honestly is the only thing that will help you here hun, and even then I doubt it gets you very far. After having several miscarriages and then finally getting my lil ones here, the first thing I thought when I read this was that u don't need a relationship with him, but I don't know the whole situation, so I am going to TRY to be sympathetic to you right now. If you love him, tell him the truth, and tell him why it happened, and hopefully you can tell him honestly that it will never happen again.
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2006-11-01 11:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Playful_Pandora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Something like this has happened to me before, so I know what you're going through. First, you need to decide if you had a reason for telling him that you were pregnant. If you were afraid of loosing him or something, admit that to him. Just, for whatever reason you did it...tell him. If he thinks you're pregnant, he might not be staying in the relationship for you...he might only be staying in it because he feels responsible. Rid him of that grief. Just tell him the truth. If he leaves you, you either deserved it, or he just doesn't understand. What you did was wrong, and you need to admit that right away...especially to him. After that, see where it goes and play it by ear. If he gets mad at you, he'll come around. Just, no matter what, tell him the truth right away before you get yourself into a situation that you're not prepared for. When I did this, I lost my boyfriend and a lot of my best friends. Don't let that happen to you, and stop lying to get attention.
2006-11-01 11:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fess up before this goes on for much longer. He needs to know the truth and you need to take the responsibility for this deceit no matter what the outcome.
There is no gentle way of telling him that will ease the hurt he will feel. Just be straightforward, admit your mistake, tell him you were frightened of losing him and ask him for forgiveness.
2006-11-01 11:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you lie about being pregnant in the first place? You could just tell him all about your lie, after all, you don't want to be in a relationship on lies, do you?
2006-11-01 11:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should dump you like yesterday. IF you can not ahve a relationship built on trust then you don't deserve to be with anyone. You need help you;ve been playing with his heart and telling him that you were pregnant. You are SICK IN THE HEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-01 11:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by mommy of two 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my dear you could jut tell him that you had a still birth and you will have to go into the hospital to have the baby make sure to cry.or you had still birth.since the pregnancy is five month wait until six .buy up some baby stuff in the mean time and also try to get pregnant in the process .i really understand what you are going threw .dont care what the others want to say.just do your think .
2006-11-01 12:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
You've been playing pregnant for FIVE MONTHS? And he hasn't noticed that you're really not? Not too bright, is he? But, anyway, I think you're out of luck. Should pretend to be something you're not.
2006-11-01 11:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell him the truth and you will probably lose him either way. When there is no baby he will know you have been lying. Trust will be lost. Maybe he will forgive you and work it out, but you need to be honest.
2006-11-01 11:42:27 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The truth always works best.....even if it is hard for you. Why in this world you toy with someone's emotions like that!!!?? He'll find out in 4 months anyway that you were lying........might as well spare him the rest of his feelings and let him move on and find someone worth being with..........
2006-11-01 11:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell him that you arn't pregnant without him leaving you. Tell him straight forward that you lied to him, and why you lied to him about being pregnant. Who knows, he just may forgive you.
2006-11-01 11:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by Kikyo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋