After several days of my grandma's passing, I cried many days. I decided to turn off all my lights at midnight and sat in a corner waiting for her ghost to come visit me. She never showed up. Later I felt asleep and dreamed of her. She told me she was getting too old and could not get up. I woke up in tears! Why didn't she visit me? I miss her.
2006-11-01 11:26:33 · 7 answers · asked by Jumbo Shrimp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just thinking about it makes me cry. I don't want her to go!!!
2006-11-01 11:39:31 · update #1
I'm so sorry about your loss of your grandmother. I'm sure she's watching over you in her own way and it may not be where you can see her. My mom passed away several years ago and I've never seen her ghost. At least dreaming of her should make you feel closer to her once again. Hang onto the wonderful memories you have of her and be happy just as I'm sure she'd want you to be.
2006-11-01 11:35:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can tell: You did love your grandmother a great deal. What you need to know is that your grandmother's in you--you are a piece of her just as she was a piece of you. And you cannot visit a piece of you---how is that possible.
I do not know how old your grandmother was when she passed away. But I do know the pain. My mother recently passed away and I still miss her. But I am old enough to realize that death can also be a blessing because people do get very ill and sometimes too old to be able to take care of themselves and they welcome death. But your grandmother is in you because you are the child of her child and so she will always live on, because you will have children and so your children will also be a piece of your grandmother....so do not be sad that she could not visit you. Tell yourself that she is in a better place called heaven, where she has no pain and aches, where she does not have to worry no longer, where she is happy and one day you will be meeting her there.....
2006-11-01 11:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by MARIANNE G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she's probably otherwise occupied either in Heaven or Hell. If she's saved, she's enjoying herself and her old friend's in heaven. If not, she's in prizon forever burning. Either way, she's busy. The dead, whether in heaven or hell, are generally not allowed to visit unless they get special permission and that happens next to never. Plus, the last thing I'd be thinking about after being reunited with my parents, brother's and sister's, old friends, etc, is the few people I just left on Earth. They haven't seen these other people in years! They've seen you in the last few weeks! Priorities, man! If you think she's in Heaven, then get saved yourself and you'll join her one day. Then, you'll understand why she hasn't visited! I feel your pain, though.
2006-11-01 11:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by JACQUELINE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your Grandma. She must have been very special to you, and you to her. But she DID visit you -in your dream. Dreams are wonderful ways for our loved ones to visit us. You will probably see her a lot more in dreams, too.
2006-11-01 11:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your loss, she knows you love her and is watching over you, she appeared to you in a dream and there will probably be many more dreams where she appears to you so she can let you know in her own way that she is still with you always even if she cant physically be with you anymore....
2006-11-01 11:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did visit you in your dream
2006-11-01 11:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she thinks you need to morn and get on with your life .
2006-11-01 11:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋