if you think your daughters pregant but your not sure should i ask her and if not what should i do?

Question

my daugther has gotren bigger and shes always pukeing and shes always at the doctor and she wont tell me why and i found a pregnacey test in her room and it was positve what shoud i do singed hopless

Answer 1

well ...thats a huge clue you know...she needs..your help...you need to step in and m ake sure she's okay ...she needs you and you need to be as supportive as you can be even tho your proably shocked and really upset....just go in her room or take her shopping for some new clothes and casually mention...do you want to go to the motherhood store with me? ..goodluck to you and congratulations!

Answer 2

I would simply just ask her tell her that you have noticed her being sick alot and that you are concerned about her health. But understand that she is probably scared and explain to her that you are there for her no matter what and that you just want her to talk to you. She still may be a little resistive to talk about it but she needs to know that even if you may be a little upset or disappointed in her that you still love her and will support her. Right now she probably does need you more that ever. Maybe also suggest that next time she goes to the Dr that you go with her. May I also suggest not telling her you found a pregnancy test in her room she may feel that her privacy was violated and become even more resistive to talk to you about it.

Good Luck and Best wishes

Answer 3

First of all if she has not told you as yet that she is pregnant, there is a serious problem between the two of you as far as communication is concerned! You never said just how old your daughter is to begin with. You must point-blank ask her, HOW MANY MONTHS ARE YOU? Speak to her like you know that she is definitely pregnant. If you are able to, if she lets you, why don't you just gently place your hands on her stomach and keep them there for awhile to see if you see & feel any baby movement, check her belly-button to see if it's protruding as yet. Look at her closely as a mother looks at her daughter and you will sense the truth. Does she have a boyfriend, are you aware of someone in her life, does she have any friends, ask them if you have to. Are there any other children (brothers and sisters) in the house, ask them also. Does she go to school? If so, ask there. She doesn't ever have to verbally tell you she's pregnant, she may be afraid to do that. And only she would know the reason for that. But if there's a baby, it will be born eventually, and it is your right to know about it. And to see that she doesn't try to dispose of the child after it is born. We see too much of these things happening, it's a tragic crime. The family always says they never knew their daughter was pregnant. If you know that she goes to the doctor a lot, do you know who the doctor is or the hospital or clinic she goes to? You need to find out these things and speak to someone about it. If your daughter is able to speak to her father (your husband) or another adult family member ask him or her to speak to her. Maybe she will feel more comfortable speaking to him or her. You are not the hopeless one, it is your daughter for not sharing this important information, this involves a life, whether it is wanted or unwanted, this is serious business and it must be addressed as soon as possible. As I always say, the truth will always come out. Don't worry too much, you have God on your side!

Answer 4

Well, you really have to talk to her. If she's showing the signs and you found a positive pregnancy test in her room, why should she hide it? You already know so she should just fess up!

When you talk to her, don't talk at her. I know you're a concerned parent, but you should stay calm. If you come at her in a bad way, she won't open up to you at all. What's done is done -- there's really nothing you can do about it now. You just have to be there for her and support her no matter what. If she is pregnant, this is the time where your support is very important.

Good luck.

Answer 5

It doesn't matter if the pregnancy test is positive or not.. After they sit around for awhile the change and don't have accurate results.. Since shes getting bigger and pukeing and always at the doctor just flat out ask her.. "are you pregnant? you are showing all the signs"

Answer 6

Well, i think you should. If you already checked her room and saw the test , then your involved. And since the test was positive, you already know the answer. How old is your daughter? if shes younger then 18 , ask her calmly although you know the answer. How you get the answer you want out of your daughter.

Answer 7

What kind of home are you running?
Ask her straight up! You're the Momma right? You have a right to know! After all,it's probably going to be YOU taking care of business! Tell her that you need to know! That way ya'll can gear up and get things ready for the new addition!

Answer 8

If you quite sure that she's pregnant then just ask her if there's anything that she wanna tell you or if anything that you can do for her. Be supportive instead of judgmental if you want your daughter to be open to you. I'm sure she's more lost than you do now. Now it's your time to show how a understanding mother can be.

Answer 9

First of all why would you just "let" her go to the doctor by herself. I think that you should make an appointment for her without letting her know and well take her. Youre her parent and you have every right to do this.

Answer 10

Just come straight out and her ask her..How old is she?If she is young meaning under 18 then tell her you will be there for her and support, assuming thats what you really want to do..
Honesty is the best policy..
Good Luck!!

Answer 11

If you found the pregnancy test and it was positive, then be a mom and talk to her! Geeze, she is probably scared out of her mind, and feels alone. Dont just ignore it....that would be really stupid. Use your head.