2006-11-01 10:08:18 · 10 answers · asked by ♥ Lady in Pink ♥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Don't let things get you down. And don't beat yourself up because you are feeling badly about things. It sometimes is easy to blame ourselves and to think we are alone. I know it can sound easy to do, but just try changing your thinking. Call a friend and arrange to go to a movie on the weekend, or just go for a walk. I know it can be very hard at times and sometimes the loneliness can be rough, but just hang on and try to see beyond the rough day you've had. Remember, today will pass. Tomorrow can be very different.
Also, if you feel the need to speak with a doctor, go ahead and confide in one. Perhaps the doctor can help you with some counselling. Sometimes we don't see things as clearly as someone else -- the old saying, "can't see the forest for the trees" -- because we're not seeing things with the same perspective as somebody else.
Good luck, and get a good night's rest, and a better day tomorrow.
2006-11-01 10:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by SB 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have a lot of those kind of days, too. It feels lonely sometimes, but it can be an asset. It gives us a lot of time to think about things and that can work to your advantage. In my case it has made me who I am and helped me shape my political views. It gives me time to let my mind wander and be creative. It also gets a little better as I get older. I'm not nearly as afraid of people as I used to be. Just know there are a LOT of introverts out there, and you may not even realize how many there are all around you. Hang in there!
2006-11-01 18:12:30 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can understand people or even predict what will be their next move but others don't seem to know you at all ! you don't speak much they think you're snob, uncaring, or less motivate then others... well they can't seem to get the real you . I get that feeling all the time so it becomes a duty for me to smile even though i don't feel like it or to be nice to a person in front of me when I perfectly know she's or he's nothing but an hypocrite a looser or someone that is using you for personal interests...
2006-11-01 18:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by Taynha 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm a huge introvert.
From one to another:
You gotta stop that. You can't spend your life being alone because you don't understand people, or they are selfish or because you don't think your like them, or you feel like people don't like you.
Humans are social creatures. We need interaction. It helps us understand the world and ourselves better.
You need to take steps to not be like this. It wont be a fast change, but a continuing process.
You will like yourself more. Because you won't feel alone.
And I can tell that you don't like this alot of the times, because it wouldn't be a rough day if you did.
Just start asking people and dudes if they wanna hang out. Its easier than you think and no one is ever like , "no thanks."
And don't ever get too wasted. Always keep your right state of mind.
Meeting new people can be challenging but you will find friends are much better than being alone.
2006-11-01 18:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by the nothing 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, you're not alone. A lot of us like to be by ourselves, that doesn't make us lonely. Just relax, take a warm bath, listen to some music and unwind. E-mail a friend, or call someone, you should start to feel better.
2006-11-01 18:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by Icefire 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am an introvert and an agrophobic so everyday is a challenge for me to go to work. Don't worry - you aren't alone - they are heaps of people like us out there.
2006-11-01 18:10:08 · answer #6 · answered by Hanky 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Extreme Introvert here ! but I love every minute of it... Sorry you had a bad day !! Believe me YOU are NOT alone though !!!
2006-11-01 18:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
honey, it may feel like you are alone, but you are never alone. i am an introvert, too, but you can always find someone who wants to help you. it helps to get it out, trust me.
2006-11-01 18:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Syd 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I was, but as I get older I improve some on being more outgoing.
I feel for you sweetie! Hang in there, maybe you will become more extroverted with age!
2006-11-01 18:11:37 · answer #9 · answered by shepherd 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no you aren't alone. you can't be all that introverted if you are on here talking to all of these strangers!
go with your badself.
2006-11-01 18:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋