ok. this is weird for me to admit. i had a dream where i kissed my friend...who is a girl....and then i kissed a different girl.but w/ the other girl it was because she was helping me practice to kiss this guy who supposedly kissed really good.....what does this mean? could this mean i am a lesbian?
please help?
2006-11-01 09:57:37 · 15 answers · asked by IrishDreamer 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I am a lesbian and I dream about being with guys sometimes. Probably means I'm bi, but I'm not stressing about it.
Do you like this girl?
2006-11-01 10:06:54 · answer #1 · answered by hot sh!t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it could mean you are lonely. For some reason, your subconscious mind could not find a man for you to dream about. That's simply because you are afraid to show yourself in public. You may be shy in reality, so you projected same sex in your dream. That also proves that you are seeking companion. Having same sex in dream is only symbol of how you feel in the moment. However, if you keep dreaming dream like that, I would say if you have more than 5 times of similar dream, you had better see a shrink
2006-11-01 21:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not really i have those dreams sometime too and it's nothing. Have you ever kissed another girl before? Like you have gotten drunk and done it well i have and i don't think it means anything. I am married with a son and i have no feelings to be anything beyond kissing a girl. I think you are just normal
2006-11-01 18:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IrishDreamer,
Let me throw out a wild meaning, that could be true.
You are going to work for a woman. The relationship between the two of you is going to be great. But the second job that you get, you will also have a woman for a boss, and your relationship will be greater than the first, and the two jobs will be for the training for the third job, where you will work for a man. He will pay even better than the two women, and your relationship will be even greater than the first two jobs.
2006-11-01 18:22:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean that you are attracted to her in your subconscious, or maybe you just wonder what it would be like and you are just curious, but, I really wouldn't put alot of emphasis on that dream. Unless, you act upon it. Or you could have had the dream because you watched Cruel Intentions and the movie came in your dreams. It has been known to happen.
2006-11-01 18:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no darling. unless you generally are attracted to women and can see yourself eating their carpets i dont think you really need to worry.
Kissing is often associated with youthful love. It is teenagers, and not parents, who kiss until they are weak in the knees on the escalator in the mall. You can be kissing another, watching others kiss, or experience that "I'm about to be kissed" moment.
Kissing another is often wish-fulfillment or sexual acting out. The wish-fulfillment may not be to kiss per se, but to experience the youthful energy of love. Kissing in this sense is the desire for the awakening of passion, not necessarily the passion acted out.
Watching others kiss may be a sign of knowing too much about them personally or participating in their lives at too personal a level. The exception here would be if you are watching your partner kiss another, which is an obvious herald of infidelity or a desire for voyeurism in the relationship.
The "about to be kissed" moment is an interesting one. Often, it occurs as we wake up. This is the dream that may most accurately reflect a desire for actual passion with another. The reason we wake up is the taboo feeling that perhaps, while we want this, it would not be beneficial to actually participate in it.
Is the kissing comforting or threatening to you?
Is it something you sought after, or was it forced upon you?
Is your general experience repugnant, romantic, or passionate?
2006-11-01 18:01:03 · answer #6 · answered by cha cha pop 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This doesn't say very much about your sexuality at all.
When you dream, the logic, reasoning, and knowlege centers of your brain are asleep. This is why you should not let a dream worry you too much.
2006-11-01 18:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can decide it could mean u r one but it could just be tellin u 2 stay away dreams r complicated but if u know u like guys and still think they r cute u r good if not.. well u decide
2006-11-01 18:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by mdmel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it doesn't mean your a lesbian, it's a dream!
2006-11-01 17:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it felt naughty and forbidden and you liked it you are probly gay but most likely bi. Nothing wrong with that it is actually quiet hot.
2006-11-01 18:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tridda AKA K.B.J.G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋