Personally I can't stand kids. Especially small children, I can;t see how people can have 5,6,7,8,9,10 kids. Why would I want to spend all of my extra money and time on raising another human being? You have to sacrifice yourself to your children.
2006-11-01 08:49:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I don't really care for children either. Unless they are well behaved. Kids today have no respect.
I will not bring a child into this over-populated world. Certain countries need to learn about birth control to control their poverty stricken nations.
2006-11-01 09:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by bratty brat 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well when they start getting attitudes i dont hate them but they need a good old fashion whipping that causes them to have to stand up at the dinner table.i used this tactic as my mom and dad did.now i love kids from birth to about 6 but thats really all i can handle.those that have more than 3 children are just subject for much punishment. as in the bible it is said to go and reproduce thyselves.this is not the correct wording but the bible didnt say have a football team.reproducing thyselves means having 2 children so a married couple are 2 and then have 2 kids.i believe thats what is meant.and ive seen parents with a brood large enough to have a team of basketball players with 2nd and 3rd alternates. having children is a blessed event and children are a gift from our blessed LORD but does anyone use protection anymore?i have one child ,a daughter 24 and married.i hope to see a grandchild before i get too old bt i am already too old. im so disabled i couldnt play ball nor could i run like the wind with the child neither could my wife.i digress and know if we are blessed with grandkids the best we can do is to babysit.ive done that and enjoyed it.
2006-11-01 17:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to assess this for yourself. You seem to realize exactly how you feel, which is great. I believe a lot of people do not feel comfortable expressing the feelings you have because others tend to judge you for it. Some personalities work with having kids, and some don't. Nothing wrong with that, unless you go ahead and have them, knowing you feel the way you do.
I felt the way you do when I was younger, and then I changed my mind. I now stay home with my three kids (we're definitely done having them), who I love more than words can say. If someone had told me 20 years ago what I'd be doing today, I'd never have believed them. I can't imagine life without my kids or life without the insights, wisdom, love, etc. they've given me. However, that's me.
If you know you feel this way, I think you are wise to figure it out now. And don't feel as if you have to explain yourself to anyone. It's really nobody's business but your own, unless you choose to share it. You go, girl!
2006-11-01 17:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by sadiemylady 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can tolerate them as long as they (1) stay away from me, and/or (2) when in public, keep their yaps shut. Nothing more annoying than trying to enjoy a nice evening out at a fine restaurant, and hearing some squealing rugrat throwing a fit. It's like an icepick through the eardrum.
2006-11-01 16:59:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am neutral on them as a rule as long as the parents are not retarded defenders of their crazy offsprings behavior. I think its the neurotic parents who use the excuse of bad behavior with children that are actually worse. ie. i have to leave early because my child is sick... or screaming kid in a restaurant/ movie. That offspring that never slows down and has no regard to where their mother is at in the store. Yea I am out of that one!
2006-11-01 16:54:41 · answer #5 · answered by Karrien Sim Peters 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think children are a blessing from God and some will turn out to be well-behaved adults who can contribute something positive to society, but they are a huge responsibility. You have to train them, discipline them, clothe them, feed them. This takes time and money to accomplish this. I don't have children for this reason.
2006-11-01 21:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by sunny4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have any of my own children yet, but I love most kids. I don't like the ones that get annoying fast or the ones that aren't well-behaved. But I can tolerate most kids.
2006-11-01 16:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast you realize this BEFORE you get pregnant. I don't think a lot of people consider their honest feeling before embarking on the endevour.
I, myself, have a bundle of energy in the form of a 4 year old boy. I think about more only because he's so loney but I can't stand other peoples kids.
Get IUD (good for 10 years at a time) or your tubes ties and don't feel the need to justify it to anyone.
2006-11-01 16:53:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lotus Phoenix 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I agree!
I detest children, I am unwilling to put the time, effort, and especially not money into raising them. My genes will die when I die but I'm OK with that.
2006-11-01 16:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rochester 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know any one who has that many kids(unless some of the kids are step-kids), but i love kids especially the younger ones. Maybe it's just a matter of opinoin.
2006-11-01 16:52:40 · answer #10 · answered by candy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋