i'm 12, he's 14 his name is jared..i think he's the type that u don't c as cute, but to me he's really cute, he seems to be looking at me when i'm looking somewhere else, but i'm not sure. he seems so shy when i'm around like i am and he's been "avoiding" me lately, but i'm scared that our friends would think it's ridiculous if i told him i like him (i'm not planning 2), some guy screamed out that i like him, and i'm also scared that he heard, some people would agree i'm too young 2 go out, and i think so 2, now i've stop looking at him in the hallways and buildings, but it's kind of making me like him more, all the advice my bffs gave me won't work and i need help.
Am i suppose to like him? Can i or not?
How do I get rid of him off my mind?
Am i too young?
How do i tell him i like him (if the time is right)?
Am i obssessed with him bcoz i ca't get my mind off him?
+ he's really nice and sweet
I AM SO SORRY IF U THINK THIS IS SO LONG
THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!
2006-11-01 08:49:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
even when i'm listening to music, going in clubs or hanging out, i'm still thinking about him...i don't want to like him anymore, bcoz it's not "right"
2006-11-01 08:59:11 · update #1
You are not too young to like him. You are too young to go out though.
Do not worry about what your friends think. It's YOUR life & who you like is up to you, you do not need your friends' approval. You will learn that your friends will not always like the boys you like. And if they only don't like him because of his looks then they are wrong for that.
2006-11-01 08:53:06 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 22:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to go out. Focus on your studies more, and you'll be fine. You could listen to music or do something that will get your mind off him. Or another thing you could do is go up to him and start talking and create and friendship with him. Ask him like: "So..do you like any girls"? Something like that. Forget what your friends say-they gave their suggestions-no need to do what they say. It's your life, not your friends. Make the right choices. You can like him as a friend, but I suggest don't go furthur than that. Hope I'm a help to you! Good luck! :)
2006-11-01 08:54:55 · answer #3 · answered by Aanchi11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
12 is young .. but so what . you just like the guy .. what's wrong with that ? .. and what if people know ? Or if he knows ? .. You like him .. right ? .. So it is good if he knows that. Once he knows that you like him, you will find out if he likes you too .. maybe he does, .. maybe he doesn't. You are thinking about it so much of the time , because you want to know the answer to that question ... but you need to risk him finding out. Just try some simple chat .. you see him in the hallway . .or wherever .. just say : "Hello, how ya doing ?" .. He'll say something back .. if he doesn't say anything .. then he is a jerk. Don't worry about what other people think .. or what he will think .. just be friendly to him and see what happens !! Good Luck !!! :)
2006-11-01 08:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so glad you asked that question im in the same situation . you can like him or even date him im only 10 and people in my class have boyfriend but dont tell there parents. you shouldnt get him off you mind if hes hot hes hot. but if you do want to get him off you mind listen to music that always helps me.first ask him to be friends if he says no then he just doesnt know you well get to know eachother hang out sooner or later your dating.
AND I BETS HE HAS A CRUSH ON YOU TRY MY ADVICE.
2006-11-01 08:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by BloodIsTheAnswer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think your still too young.. You can just be his friend and do stuff together.. But the way the world is going these days with babies having babies.. YOu should just do it.. Ask him first in person if he like you.. and if he does, what is he going to do about it.. and you can take it from there.. good luck..
2006-11-01 08:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well same problem here hon. I am twelve (13 tomorrow!!!) and I like this guy alot and he is fourteen too. Sadly there is nothing you can do to get him off your mind he is just permanently there! Here the answers that I have learned with my crush-
You are not SUPPOSED to like anyone, you like who you like.
You cannot get him off your mind he is just permanently there.
Honey, you are to young to DATE but you guys might be able to court, that is where like instead of going out (just you two) he comes to your house or you go to his house. You guys can like ask your family to go bowling or something like that. My mom says this is what I have to do and I kind of like the idea lol. That way your family can see what he is like, and you can get your moms okay, bcuz they are normally really good at telling guys lol
No worries, he is probably thinking of you too. I mean you are doing the same thing that he is. (in example) like not looking at each other, not talking to each other etc. etc.
Just go along with your crush it is fine, just stop worrying and just go along for the ride. That is what I am doing and I am doing pretty well.
GOOD LUCK!!!
AND YOU ARE WELCOME!!!
2006-11-01 09:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can like whoeva u want
u cant..i cant get somone i am crushin on outta ma mind eitha..he'll soon go away.. (for u tho..NOT me!!)
no u r not u r obesseed wit him when u talk,think, and say EVERYTHING bout hin
2006-11-01 08:53:10 · answer #8 · answered by yubi101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 08:50:26 · answer #9 · answered by R & B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah !!go do your homework first and then we'll talk
2006-11-01 08:50:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋