What do you do when you think you treat your boyfriend badly and others see it. Like emotionally and mentally? How do I change and make it better? He says I don't, but I know I do, but I don't try to do it.
2006-11-01 07:18:11 · 5 answers · asked by Peek A Boo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find out what is going on with you. I had the same problem, take a break, tell him why. When you find the problem and solve it, you become a better person! Plus he sounds like a sweet guy, and you dont want to hurt him.
2006-11-01 07:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by angie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become more self aware of what you do or say to him. Like if you're having a bad day, you might treat him badly but its not his fault. Take record of all the things you do that are mean and learn from these mistakes. You'll eventually catch yourself and learn your lesson. As far as the people who see it, don't let them see it. No one should know how relationships really are just by looking whether good or bad. Dont make faces behind his back or talk about him bad to your friends. Always make it seem like everything is sooo good at the moment, even if you have to fake it.
2006-11-01 15:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by Chely 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the one thats been hurt badly by others before allbeit maybe not ex-boyfriends but other people and this is your defence mechanism thats maybe why you dont realise you are doing it its automatic you can stay with him but admit that you are vulnerable and try to get some help for you and hes sounds like the type of guy that would help you through it gl xx
2006-11-01 15:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by shells 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wait around until he gets sick of it and dumps you, or you get away with it so long that you lose so much respect for him that you dump him most likely.
That's how we evolve emotionally and heal ourselves and stop dating the wrong people and learn to empathize with others and treat them with the respect they deserve.
2006-11-01 15:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u know that u treat him bad, then maybe u dont need to have a boyfriend right now!!
2006-11-01 15:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋