i don't know what's going on. my two best friends have left me. and i'm all alone right now. i know that one of them is really mad @ me but i don't know why! and the other one's mad just cuz the other one is. and all my other friends have ditched me too! i'm all by myself. i don't know what i did. i haven't baan acting any different then i always do. i'm so sad. i have no one to talk to. my only other friend is in high school and i'm only in 8th grade. so i wont be able to go to school w/ her for another year. why are my friends being like this? everytime i go to talk to someone they just walk away. i'm so sad and alone. i'v always had soooo many friends that i loved so much, and now i have none. what did i do. what can i do? how to i get my best friends back? please help. i feel so awful.
2006-11-01 07:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by Emy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hey Emy will you please allow IM
i will be ur friend!
*not a pedophile*
try starting a conversation by saying that you want things to be like they used to be...
2006-11-01 14:28:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get ahold of one of your friends and ask them what the deal is!!!! Try to get one of your friends when they are alone and then talk to them because they probably aren't all mad at you, just one and the rest of your friends are falling under pier pressure, they don't want anyone mad at them if they are seen talking to you!! Girl, you need to get to the bottom of it and fix it, because it sucks going to a school with no friends!! and if that don't work, then give up on them and find some new friends, because real friends wouldn't act like that!!! Real friends would confront you with a problem they have and try to fix it before it gets out of hand!!! But apparently your friends are just running around talking about you behind your back, which is why everyone walks away from you. So you need to decide if this is the type of friends you even want, the type that run away every time there is a problem, a true friend would have your back!!!
2006-11-01 15:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by flowergirlsdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is deja vu for me. the exact same thing happened to me when i was in middle school. my friends all through elementary school - a group of about 6 or 7 girls - decided one day they weren't going to speak to me anymore. I still don't know to this day what I did to deserve it. But you know what? it ended up being one of the best things that ever happened to me. Since I found myself completely alone, just like you, I searched out new friends. It took a lot of courage and some rejection, but I made friends with a lot of really cool people at my school, and outside of school as well. Within a few months I had immersed myself into a new group of friends and didn't even give the old 'snob mob' a second thought. One thing you have to remember while you're in school is that girls can be very mean for very stupid reasons. And who knows? Maybe ther was a misunderstanding, things will clear up between you, and you'll be friends again. But if not, and they continue to ignore you, go on with your life, because you're better than that. Just rmemeber that it's their loss, not yours! Good luck.
2006-11-01 15:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad you feel awful about your friends leaving you, but did you ever think about whether they were your friends to begin with??? Sometimes it's good for us to be alone; if we never spend time to and by ourselves, how will we ever learn to appreciate and get to know about ourselves? I think this is YOUR TIME to be alone and to learn about you...w/o the opinions and suggestions of others. In all honesty these "friends" aren't worth getting back. You could, of course, ask them why they've distanced themselves from you, but then what? Learn to be independent of others.
And as always, you can find new people to be around.
2006-11-01 15:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by incognitas8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would corner one of them and ask them what's the matter. But, you can always make new friends. One's that won't leave you. Hope you can get some of your friends back! or make good new ones!
2006-11-01 15:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just confront them one at a time and ask them what the problem is..its better 1 at a time so no one is trying to gang up on you, maybe someone will tell you. good luck hun!
2006-11-01 15:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by april b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. People's feelings change and change. Don't get stuck in life because of what someone else does or doesn't do.
Find things that make you happy.
2006-11-01 15:17:22 · answer #7 · answered by the shadow knows 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well anyways your not alone girl cause like you know i was like that before but i got use to it and hey what's your name? anyways mine is lois easter and hey nice meeting you!
2006-11-01 16:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by lois e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should move on try to make new friends
just chill
2006-11-01 15:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by tabi_Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just showing you who your real friends really are and it seems to me you don't have any real friends
2006-11-01 15:20:08 · answer #10 · answered by datgurlronda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋