2006-11-01 06:58:54 · 11 answers · asked by Jackal_E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
So what have you got to offer a lady? Are you smart? If ot, try reading (and don't move your lips while you do it). Are you good looking? If not, see about getting a make-over and remember to make the most of what you have. Are you fun?
Work on making yourself the kind of guy women crave and you'll have to beat them off with a stick.
2006-11-01 07:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for the talk and the love part will come if it is destined to be.
People always put too much stress on finding a mate, a Mr. or Ms. Right , a life partner or what have you. Instead, go out there and make friends and have fun with your frineds while you ge tot know them and they you. Somewhere, just waiting for you, willbe the person you will marry and enjoy being with for years. But your desperate search has caused you to overlook them.
As to venues, try the Y, church, synagogue or mosque, night school classes, pottery, painting or other classes or groups, local sports associations tha tlet everyone play, volunteering for big bro/sis or scouts or whatever, andything where a young person would get involved and also meet other people with similar interests. But please, don't go looking in bars, most of the goal there is to have sex not find a real lover; besides alcoho, can fog the brain and make you wonder what (or whom) you did the next morning.
2006-11-01 15:06:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont NEED someone to love....you are only 20....you have a lifetime to find that one true person for you. i am 30, got married at 20, separated at 25 and now divorced. just recently ran into a past love and re-kindling what we had. I am happier than i have ever been. so my point is don't go looking for it...when the time is right it will come to you.
2006-11-01 15:03:57 · answer #3 · answered by Get_R_Done_n_Dallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants to find love .from situations around me i am beginning to understand that desperation might lead one to make the worst of choices calm down. you're not 50 and even if all your friends have found love never mind.Be open and friendly is wat am told and they say love will come your way.this is so hard and unrealistic to believe but well what can one do ? except reduce the desperation.
there are so many people in your shoes u r not alone okay?
2006-11-01 15:04:31 · answer #4 · answered by PRETTY-BRAINS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said you are only 20, in time you will find her, right now just go out with our freinds and have a great time when you least expect it she will fall into your lap so stop looking
2006-11-01 15:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make bad choices when they are desperate.
2006-11-01 15:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i dont kno about the love part lol but i can talk to u lol. email me at Elmosgonnakillyou@yahoo.com
2006-11-01 15:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by SamE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get off of Yahoo Answers... you won't find one here.
2006-11-01 15:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never admit your desperate dude.....
2006-11-01 15:05:49 · answer #9 · answered by cw45colt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soooo how can v help u get off the net n look for her
2006-11-01 15:00:44 · answer #10 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋