any females in their 30s going through emotional changes- child hood issues, life choices -that they are now regretting in their 30's ? how are you working through them? am i alone?
2006-11-01 06:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by t m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am 32, and have recently gone through many life changes. I am embracing them because by doing so, I feel like I can make the changes in a positive way. Two years ago, my life was turned upside down....and I have been trying to pick up the pieces of raising three kids on my own. I have recently remarried and have been dealing with some big life changes.....but I do see it as a positive thing.
2006-11-01 07:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all women in their 30's go through this -- I'm 37 and I just started really focusing on what you describe so I may be a little late to the game. I think women also tend to think too much (I know I do, and there are alot more women posting here then men) and we could learn from men in that they seem to more easily accept things and move on. Good luck.
2006-11-01 12:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone. I think during certain points in life, we all look back, with maturity and wisdom, and wonder why we did things, or regret doing things. Hindsight is 20/20 so it's better to understand how much you've grown/changed rather than feel loss or regret/
2006-11-01 07:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never be alone in this situation dear. it's natural. none of us are perfect. we all have something in our past we wish we could have done differently. but, the past will never come again and the future will be her soon enough. i work through mine by talking about them. i have been blessed with a wonderful husband with whom i can share my feelings and what i am going through. he listens! i also find journaling to be very helpful. www.livejournal.com is a good place to journal. you can make your entry public or private. sometimes you can even get some feedback. i told my husband the other day. i know i'm going to go through with my kids what i put my mom through, i just hope i handle it differently. accept your past and leave it where it belongs, in the past. find a good person whom you can trust enough to talk to. like i said, it helps me very much when i journal, you can put it down on paper or journal on your computer. don't block anything. let yourself work through it. have fun! God Bless You and Yours!
2006-11-01 07:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by LennyWenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋