For some reason she like to call and argue with me, ever sense I put him on child support. He would pay when he felt like it.
2006-11-01 06:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you do not owe this woman any explanations...A PARENT HAS A STATUTORY OBLIGATION TO SUPPORT CHILD(REN) UNTILL THEY REACH THE AGE OF MAJORITY. i know how you feel.....my ex has the woman from hell...she has such an unnatural interest in my child...issues that are none of her business. just remember...this woman is a third party...she is irrevelant. do not talk to her...if you were on good terms...that would be a different story. good luck!
2006-11-01 08:13:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When my ex-hubby got remarried I called his new wife and made it clear that I would respect her as long as she did the same with me. That if there was anything that needed to be discussed concerning MY children I would be talking to him. I knew that she was a part of their life now and that was fine but when it came to making any decisions about my kids it was between him and me. Let the state take the child support out of his check. Then you won't have to deal with her. If She keeps the phone calls up then call the cops and press charges for harassment. Try talking to your ex- husband and tell him you will not put up with this. If it keeps up you will go to the cops.
2006-11-01 07:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by irishlady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two ways to look at this. First you can ignore her because technically you don't have to deal with the wife of your child's husband, and deal with directly with the child's father, or secondly you can realize this woman is part of your child's life as long as she is married to the father and for the sake of the child you should try to get along with her.
2006-11-01 06:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by stacye5398 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time she calls, you just tell her, This has nothing to do with her, and that you do not want to talk to her, no disrespect, but this happened before her. and hang up the phone. Don't bad mouth your son's dad to your son. Just let the authorities handle the child support, so if their is a problem, call child support, and see if they can take it out of his check!
2006-11-01 06:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To me, that shows she has no more respect for your children, than she does for you.
If she keeps up with the bad calls, let her know, that now that ex hubby is married, IF she works, and he decides NOT to, that you have the right to have the state garnish her wages too!!! (only is the father doesn't work).
Don't let her screaming bother you too much. Your KIDS have the right to receive the support. Your provong your a good mother, and remind her of that too.
If the calls get too bad, get a restraining order against her.
2006-11-01 06:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You aren't obligated to responds to her in anyway. You should try to get along for the kids sake, but if it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen. You could let her do all the screaming and arguing and patronize her with things like I know what you mean, I totally agree, we'll see how we can fix this. She will hate you even more and the great thing is........she comes off looking like the bad one and you come of looking agreeable and compromising.
2006-11-01 06:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by heaven o 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I get along great with my ex's wife. But you need to tell her that you did not make the child with her so you have nothing to say to her!
2006-11-01 06:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by jewellee79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to get along with her. Your child needs a father and he/she's got one.Let him do his duty and if she keeps getting in your face let her know that your child is not her concern. Its between you the MOM and the FATHER. Emphasize MOTHER and FATHER. If she keeps calling. Hang up. If she gets in your face personally. Beat the ***** DOWNNNN.
2006-11-01 06:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
with someone like that ---there is no getting along -- how ? i would really have a heart to heart talk with the father about his wife.does he know what she is doing?if she doesn't stop, i would tell my ex that i would not feel comfortable letting my child be around someone that is so angry with his mother.
2006-11-01 07:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by t m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer her phone calls, and just be polite and calm. It's her problem, not yours.
2006-11-01 07:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋