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My fiance and I went to a car dealer a a few days before I got enaged. The car dealer a divorced male thought I was his wife but my fiance said that I was a good friend. Him introducing me as a good friend to the car dealer bothered me. So I discussed it with my fiance and he said the car dealer doesn't need to know his personal life. A acouple of days later he went to the car dealer again without me & my fiance & him have been talking about me. Because my fiance told me so. Now when he goes to get oil change or a free car wash there he doesn't go with me. When we were spending time together one day he needed to see the car dealer so he dropped me off at my house & picked me up after he was done. When I call him while he is at work he sometimes doesn't say that he loves me. He just talks to me like he would talk to casual friend. But when we are alone he is very lovey dovey. None of his co-workers believe that he is engaged. I am Indian he is white. Is he ashamed of my race?

2006-11-01 06:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

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umm.. he might just be bisexual and found the car dealer attractive..... i know it's far-fetched.... but.... hey... weirder things have happened.

2006-11-01 06:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by rachael 3 · 0 0

It sounds like he may be a little nervous about being in an interracial relationship which is normal. You should let him know how you feel about the situation. Maybe he doesn't realize that it bothers you or that you notice it. As far as him saying you were a good friend before the engagement, you were! You were not his wife or his fiance so you were a good friend. Sometimes divorced people have negative views about marriage so I would pay the car dealer any attention at all. He seems like a worn out jerk!

2006-11-01 14:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0 0

The major prob in relationships is lack of communication, maybe you should ask him openly if thats the case. he mite not have told the car dealer, because people tend to pry more when relationships dont follow a normal pattern (white & indian combo is not a normal pattern for some). It does take all sorts to fill the world & not everyone is culturally sensitive.
anyways I think if he persists in hiding your relationship, (even after you speak to him about it) then maybe you should give him a dose of his own medicine, take him to a old classmate's house or some distant relative & say he is JUST a friend. should spark his guts

2006-11-01 14:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by atts 3 · 0 0

Honestly this is the strangest thing I have heard. If he was ashamed of you why would he propose ?? Do you think he could be gay and is attracted to the car dealer ?? I'm stumped on this one.

2006-11-01 14:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1 0

I don't know if he's ashamed of you but, he definitely has some problems. Maybe he's just telling you you two are engaged. Maybe he's just leading you on for selfish reasons. Anyhow, I'd get rid of him and soon. Sorry.

2006-11-01 14:28:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes i think he is...but tell him this is the way i feel.don't let him get away with it cause it well get worse and you will feel worse be live me.put a stop now....a man should never be a shame of his girl friend or wife. cause if you are good enough to be his fiance you good en ought to be proud of you....stop it now today.......

2006-11-01 14:40:23 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

No - just an as*****.

Dont stand for that kind of direspect!

2006-11-01 14:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Absolutely, all the signs are there.

2006-11-01 14:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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