2006-11-01 06:10:42 · 20 answers · asked by TRACER 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My first bf did but none after. Sometime i worry maybe my bf wants to cheat on me and i always say things like tell ya other bf i wont be home tonight if he wants to come round. But i guess deep down i honestly think he wouldn't!
2006-11-01 07:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by cartoonhero55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, and I will never be able to put it out of my mind. I was at his place and in his bed(we hadn't moved in together yet). I woke up to find him gone and the his car gone. I figured he went to a near by friends (lady) house. So I got up and got in my car and drove the 3 blocks or so over there. Yup his car was there. So as I had been giving the permission to just go on in many times and saw the door slightly adjar I went in. There in the front room I saw it. He was flat on his back, legs in the air and some kid on top of him. they kid turned out to be 16 years old and he was 34 years old. I said good-bye and never looked back.
I will say this, the kid must have bben exactly what he was looking for. Last I knew (about a year ago) they were still together after abotu 4 years.
2006-11-01 06:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going through it right now. although my gf does not consider it cheating....we have been together for 7 years and she just recently got custody of a child that we are raising...the childs father is in jail and writes often and calls supposedly to keep in contact with the child. well the letters and calls have strayed from that topic and i recently found a letter that contained some pretty graphic explanations of his intentions and confronted my gf who became defensive and told me she could not control his feelings for her. only problem is i found other letters that confirm she is writing the same kind of thing to him. in the last letter i found he was commenting that it was sweet that she wanted to give him a little boy so he could have a jr...we have discussed having children many times and she has always said she did not want any children because of a history of seizures that she did not want to pass on...apparently that has changed. I feel like i don't even know her anymore. and worse yet after i confronted her she told me that it was over, she had told him not to write that kind of stuff anymore that she did not have the same feelings but in the last letter he wrote, why is someone reading your letters? i thought u said u put them up, how would someone find them. I felt like the biggest slap in the face!!! she basically stood right in front of me and lied about it all.....well it was a pretty good 7 years but i don't know if we are going to get through this one. :(
2006-11-01 07:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by jobseeker_3212005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Been cheated on. It was a horrible experience; but after all was said and done; after the yelling, the tears, the name calling.. it actually brought us closer together. I know a lot of people wont stand for it, but I gave a second chance and now.. we're HOPING to get married in July of next year... I love her!
2006-11-01 06:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In 20 years, not that I know of --no...I have never cheated on him...I would like to think that we could sit down and talk about it BEFORE it happens as opposed to reacting to it afterwards.
2006-11-01 06:15:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..after a 14 year relationship...a broken heart is surely hard to mend....but I am a survivor and currently enjoying my freedom..I am currently not in a hurry to get into another relationship right now..but I am looking....
2006-11-01 10:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I truely believe she has not. And I have no reason to cheat on her either. I think we are both happy in our relationship.
2006-11-01 08:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex did after 8 years.
Kicked him to the curb.
2006-11-01 16:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes im going through that right now
2006-11-01 08:02:10 · answer #9 · answered by sexylilles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my current partner...not that i am aware of;-)
my ex...cheated more days than not
2006-11-01 06:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋