i know someone that is in the process of ending a lontime marriage with someone and they are not together anymore,i mean in the same house,they live in seperate places.she doesnt love him or want him,but she still accept things from him eventhough she know that if you tell someone that you dont want them,it makes it harder for them to letgo,so why does this sounds crazy to me,can some tellme!!get at me yahoo readers and lets put it to rest!
2006-11-01 05:55:45 · 19 answers · asked by dimediva901 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes I agree with you, if she keep's accepting gifts from her soon to be ex it might give him the wrong idea about how things are between them. She just needs to be honest with him & stop accepting gift for him.
2006-11-01 05:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by mssassy0104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not accept gifts from an ex. It is an invitation to get back into the ex's life. You are only opening yourself up to another round with this ex which will only lead to more of what you left them for in the first place.
2006-11-01 14:02:50 · answer #2 · answered by tman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess if i was still in the process of ending the relationship and it was under the circumstances that you described, I would not accept gifts. However, if you have been apart for a while and depemding on the occasion, i might. i would like to ask you what your interest in all this is and how it affects you?
2006-11-01 14:00:42 · answer #3 · answered by PhatBeatz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have accepted gifts from an ex, he expected an relationship but i am with someone and we have a child together. I made it clear that I was not leaving or cheating but he still gave me gifts.
2006-11-01 14:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if it was me, I wouldn't accept the gifts because the past is over with, and not accepting is a sign of moving on.
2006-11-01 14:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by loveangel22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't, not only because I'd be worried about my new spouses feelings, but because it's just wrong to accept something from your ex and string them along thinking they can buy you back when in reality, they don't have a hope in hell of getting you back. It's kind of cruel.
2006-11-01 13:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not accept gifts from an ex on principle. That's one way of saying that I'm not interested in him any more.
2006-11-01 13:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not accept presents unless they are for their kids.
Other than that, she sounds like she is just using the poor guy to get stuff for herself and that is a rotten thing to do.
You don't sound crazy to me, in fact, you sound very rational.
2006-11-01 14:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sue Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if were you i wouldn't accept any hting from him because of all the pain he put on me or the feeling s he hurt and the plans he screwedup so if were you i think about this answer and see if i accept anything from him next time..
2006-11-01 14:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They live together, they're married and he's buying her gifts. That sounds pretty "together" to me. I can't wait to see what he gets her for Christmas!
2006-11-01 13:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋