we jus started goin out a month ago and i dont kno wut to do
2006-11-01 05:31:33 · 11 answers · asked by ib_bubbles0721 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
1st and foremost, you need to be sure that you are pregnant with his child. 2ndly, if it turns out that you are pregnant then you need to be honest with this man. he may or may not want to be a father just yet. If he does then thats great, you two should do the right thing and get married which is what you should have done before you had sex to begin with and I"m not judging you for your actions either. If he doesn't want the child then you need to think about the child 1st. It's hard being a single mother but it's not impossible. Whatever you do don't stay with him if he doesn't want the baby provide that you are pregnant. If you stay together, it will only cause stress and pressure and then you go thru all kinds of emotions. Just get checked out 1st. I pray to God that you aren't pregnant. Babies don't asked to be born especially out of wed lock. If you aren't pregnant, just think about using protection from now on out especially if neither of you are ready to be parents. God bless
2006-11-01 05:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out for sure FIRST!! Dont say anything till you are 100% positive you are pregnant, especially if you like the guy because it will seriously scare him off if you tell him you think your preg and you've only been together for 1 month.
2006-11-01 13:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience... say nothing until you know 100% that you are with child.
If he wants a child you don't want to give him false hope and if he doesn't want any you don't need the stress it may 'cause.
2006-11-01 13:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u just have to tell him honesty iz the most important thing in realationships, if he leaves u beacuse of it he is not worth ur time
2006-11-01 13:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he know what yall was doin so he is just gon have to hear the truth..
2006-11-01 13:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by ==> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. I don't think that hiding it will solve anything tell him as soon as possible.
2006-11-01 14:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kim Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thnk if you just started going with your dude you better check your calender cause you wouldnt know if you were preggie yet by him.
2006-11-01 13:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by daisymayNY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your daddy is coming with a shotgun!
2006-11-01 13:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by tonks_op 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first take a test and see and if it comes back neg then don't worry about it, but if it comes back pos... you need to tell him right away...
2006-11-01 14:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make dinner with baby carrots, baby corn, and veal, then ask him to guess the theme... if he struggles to guess it, suggest you wear bibs to eat...
2006-11-01 13:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by C D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋