May I be a lesbian?

Question

I have a boyfriend but sometimes when we watched porn movies I always get wet when I see woman with woman having sex. This is killing me because I need to know if I'm lesbian or bisexual. I had never try lesbianism but sometimes I think that I could like to try it. What can I do....????

Answer 1

It might mean you're bi-sexual. Some people think everyone has a degree of bisexuality in them. I don't know though, um, I wouldn't stress about it. Im as gay as anything and have never desired women sexually, but I like seeing two attractive women going for it in pornos. Its an aesthetic thing- two good looking people are a turn on no matter what sex they are. If it keeps bugging you, suggest a threesome with your boyfriend and see for yourself. You might open Pandora's box though... no pun intended. By the way, you should have asked if you might be a lesbian- in sounds like you're asking permission

Answer 2

Sweetie I'm bi if you ever need anyone to talk to just email me!!! But I can tell you know if you're getting turned on by women, you like women, and you are bi, it's not a bad thing don't worry.

I would talk to your boyfriend and see if maybe he'd be interested in having a threesome... seeing as if you just go and meet some girl at a club you'd be cheating and you don't want to do that you know.

With him either go on a site and try finding a third or go to the gay clubs with him and see what kind of girls you like, if you and your boyfriend have the same taste that makes it even easier :)

Just make sure that you're secure enough with yourself and your relationship that no jealousy will come of it and make sure the girl you find is bi not gay... not very fair to him seeing how she wouldn't want anything to do with him lol

Answer 3

Well... if you're not in an "open" relationship (where you can see other people without cheating on him) there's probably not much you can do without hurting him in some way.

I guess one thing that might help is to look at your boyfriend and ask yourself why you're going out with him... and if you can't come up with a real answer, then you might be a lesbian. (Or you might just be with the wrong guy.)

Answer 4

This one is tough to answer.

I would try: Meet a girl in a club thats understands that your not sure if your gay or bisexual. Plan a day for yourself and explore your sexual side alittle more.(example: watch porn , chat online in a lesbian forum) and look for a glbt in your city and ask them to suggest a therapist for you.

good luck hun..

Answer 5

will try being with a woman and then a guy see watch one you liked more if u liked them both B if u like the woman your L if you liked the guy your S

good luck

Answer 6

Try it and see. If you don't like it you're not. If you do you could be Bi. I'd say you're not a lesbian unless you don't really like being with a guy.

Answer 7

i no the feeling..... i would say ur bisexual b/c u like both guys and gals so yeah! that was the way i was b4 i came out but now itz kool!! but yeah 2 me u just need 2 experment w/ a gurl and c if u actually like it or u just think u do!!

Answer 8

ure not a lesbian..just because woman on woman turns u on duzn make a difference..its sexual..so its natural tht u like it!!
if u want to try it..go ahead..theres no harm in being homosexual or bi-sexual..its just who u are..dont be afraid of that

Answer 9

if your uncomfortable seeing two girls together it doesn't mean you a lesbian,but if you think girl are attractive but you still like guys then your bisexual.

Answer 10

Yes, you may be a lesbian.