I like this girl and tried to show her that,but she see only friendship.I want to be her lover her slave not her friend,but she only wants a good friend.Am I selfish? Any advise would be appreciated!
2006-11-01 04:30:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It's not about being selfish, just about seeing your relationship differently. She sees it as friendship and you see it as something more. Don't worry about being selfish, if you really like and respect that girl you will never act selfishly towards her. You can either do your best to win her over, or give up and stay friends. In any case respect is at the bottom of every good relationship.
2006-11-01 04:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by july 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not selfish at all. Its what you feel.
Don't push it, maybe during the course of your friendship she will start to feel you as you feel her.
In the mean time, find some one else to satisfy the desires you have so you don't feel hurt by her rejection of an intimate relationship with you.
2006-11-01 04:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by mythoughts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth ruining the friendship. If she is not sharing the same feelings as you are, then let the friendship be just that.. a friendship. Otherwise if you push it to be something more, you'll more than likely lose the friendship all together.
2006-11-01 07:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your selfish because you want to be her lover and you feel that way, but if she doesn't feel the same way, then will you settle for just being her friend?
2006-11-01 04:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by tawnycarter@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're being selfish but you do need to respect her answer. If she just wants a friendship, then be happy with that.
2006-11-01 04:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're selfish, just... obsessed. Unfortunately there's not much you can do if she's not into you that way, just have to try and accept it and move on.
2006-11-01 04:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Think about it. If someone wanted to be with you and you weren't interested, how likely would you be to suddenly think she was dating material? Not likely? Exactly.
2006-11-01 04:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by aint_no_stoppin_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be her friend.. She told you she doesnt want a relationship so leave it be
2006-11-01 04:46:25 · answer #8 · answered by sexylilles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may not be interested in you that way....don't push so much if she doesn't she doesn't. if you cant just simply be her friend then move on.
2006-11-01 04:35:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S HER LIFE ISN'T IT?. I GUESS EVEN GIRLS DON'T LIKE TO BE REFUSED.IF ALL SHE WANTS IS FRIENDSHIP. EITHER CONTENT YOURSELF WITH THAT OR LOOK ELSEWHERE.
2006-11-01 04:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by kwenzini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋