I am Gemini, My Lover is Cancer
On the surface, it could seem like there are too many differences between Gemini and Cancer for this union to work. But if we look closer we can see why such a pairing could be the best thing for both, provided you give it a good try. You're an air sign your lover is a water sign, and together that is an effervescent mix!
First, the differences. Cancers are rooted in their home and family and need to set up roots. But Gemini, you can live out of a suitcase indefinitely, for you want to see as many different places as possible. You're eternally curious and could travel the world your whole life long. I think the character of Francesca in "The Bridges of Madison County" must've been a frustrated Gemini -- for after just a handful of hours with her photographer lover, she was ready to bolt despite her family obligations.
Your Cancer lover wants traditions, family holidays, children, a house, a back yard, and a mortgage. You would most likely prefer the variety and excitement of living in the city, or maybe even several cities, over a few years' time. You need change and stimulation; and without it you will become dull and depressed. You want children too, perhaps, but you'd rather just sling them on your back and bring them along as you globetrot. "The experience will be marvelous for them!" you think. Your lover would rather create a sheltered, storybook sanctuary for the kids to grow up in. But cut off Gemini from the stream of life and they become like the Emperor's Nightingale from the children's story: entrapped in a golden cage, they are no longer able to sing.
But on the other hand, Gemini, you need some water influence in your life. Cancers are highly sensitive and in touch with their feelings. Your Cancer lover is very sensuous, and could teach you a thing or two about enjoying touch, taste, sound, smell and sight. He or she will bring poetry and beauty into your life, and together you can explore a wider emotional spectrum than you ever could on your own. Your Cancer may even -- lo and behold! -- extend that famously short attention span of yours!
A Cancer will appreciate all the fun new people you add to your circle of friends, and will have a much more interesting life because of it. Cancer is a bit reserved, and may have to get used to the partying and socializing that come as naturally to you as breathing. This is just Gemini's way of keeping in touch! Cancer's meticulous maintenance of family correspondence with cousins, in-laws, siblings, parents, neighbors, old school chums, and so forth could get on your nerves. But you'll be flexible Gemini and cheerfully agree to tag along.
In bed, Cancers expect lovemaking to be a life-altering experience every time. What surprises you, Gemini, is that it usually is, because Cancer's feelings are authentic and deep. They may wish yours went deeper, but things may develop in time. Your Cancer will help you dive to the depths of the relationship, and, in so doing, you will not only learn about him or her but yourself, too. You are the stronger of the two partners; Cancer can be a bit tentative sexually at first. But you can certainly use your charm to seduce him or her into seducing you! Your contribution to the pairing is a sense of lighthearted fun, something Cancer will anticipate with relish.
Go for it Gemini, even though this is not a classic pairing. You both have your challenges, but each of you could give to the relationship what the other lacks. Gemini and Cancer are a combination that has the potential to be as sweet as chocolate & peanut butter, and just as addictive!
I am Gemini, My Lover is Gemini
Wow! Two twins in one household! This is life on permanent fast-forward, moving at dizzying speed. Both of you are overextended, overworked, and short on time. Can you schedule to meet at the club at midnight? What about 7am at his office? This pairing may be productive, but is it romantic?
Let's look at some of the elements here. You both are mutable (flexible) signs, so you could make it work. You both love to read and write, so you could wind up with two computers in the same spare room. You both need to check the news several times a day (a Gemini is rarely out of touch) and have a tendency to get totally wired and stressed-out. Coming down from that adrenaline overdose could be tough, but then again, the high could be fun, too. You certainly understand one another!
In bed, you both are so versatile, verbal, and particularly skilled with your hands and fingers, so you are sure to keep one another interested for years. You are witty, clever, and customarily look younger than your age. All these attributes make for great, charismatic attraction to each other. Need proof? Think of these two Gemini: John F. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe.
Since both of you are air signs, you communicate well with each other -- a big plus for a healthy relationship. Marriage counselors say that the continual exchange of thoughts and feelings is the most important ingredient in any good coupling. However, there isn't any water here, so can either of you feel the emotions behind those brainy theories? Is love in your head or your heart, Gemini? Your sign does not get tremendously emotional. But for a Gemini + Gemini pairing, both of you are going to have to get in touch with your feelings and emotions if this relationship is going to make it over the long haul, and not fall victim to cool objectivity. Your combined high IQs won't be able to do the work. Since neither of you are mad romantics, you may have to try harder to get romance to be a part of your life together.
On the plus side, Gemini can't love someone whose mind they don't respect, and I bet you find your lover fascinating. You can discuss a wide variety of subjects and interests. You probably send love letters, but also cut out clippings of interesting articles for each other. You are good at sharing and adore travel. A sense of fun unites you, with little jokes and pranks being a regular part of everyday living. Neither of you is really domestic, so perhaps you should hire cleaning help. Neither of you is particularly practical either -- another problem because you've got a double dose! So get a good accountant and do what she says to do, Gemini.
They say a Gemini is looking for his or her lost twin -- the other half, in the cosmic sense. You may have just found your soul mate -- so if you are happy, enjoy your Gemini match. You can make this union work very well if you try.
2006-11-01 04:54:57
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