Every damn job that I have had, someone has pointed out to me that I am defensive, strong willed or something else. As far as being/ sounding defensive- I think that I am just overly sensitive and I try to work on it, but its like I cant. I dont know how to react to certain situations to where I end up reacting negatively about it. And end up hating everyone there. As far as strong willed- I dont see anything wrong with it other than it may seem that I may on the attack of that person when speaking to them. I dont mean to come across that way...I really dont. I just want to tell them to get my point across. I just cant take constructive critism well I guess.
I really dont know why I am this way. I cant explain it. I am so tired or people complaining about me, telling me that same **** over and over, my mom not wanting to listen to me and telling me that I whine and complain too much when she complains too and I have to hear about it. I dont know what to do. Any suggestions?
2006-11-01 03:51:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
you need to work on your confidence level and learn to tell people to **** off and move one with your day, put yourself first and who cares what others think there retarded anyways right?
2006-11-01 03:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FFS, chill out dude...and get some therapy. You're not going to find the answer on here but you might be pointed in the right direction and the fact that you're acknowledging there is a problem shows you're heading in the right direction. Good luck to you.
2006-11-01 12:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by slıɐuǝoʇ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋