indulging in meaningless relationships is not my style simply because I would get emotionally attached and I can't distinguish between love & sexuality
also, I find various forms of self-help pathetic 'cause it's not the real thing.
how do you do it, what works for you
2006-11-01 02:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just by sheer will power and remembering mistakes I have made in the past. As we get older we learn to stop, look and listen before we leap.
Once a mistake has been made, it can't be erased, so it's important not to make the mistake in the first place. Caution in all things is the key word. Not easy I agree but it's something we have to learn and apply.
2006-11-01 03:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tougher :-)
You don't have a special someone, you don't want to be with just anyone and you don't want to be "pathetic" and please yourself so all you have left is to try to think about it as little as possible. It happens to me naturally when I'm busy or preocupied. But sometimes when stress gathers, I get even hornier.
I personally don't understand why people concider masturbation dirty, pathetic etc. It's a beautiful way to explore your body and learn what your like and how you like it.
Anyway, if it's hard for you, try sports or meditation, anything that ballances your hormones. That way you should stay cool.
2006-11-01 04:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by july 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://www.jimmyjane.com
Not safe for work.
All I can tell you is that STDs and bad feelings can be very real, so I'll take fakeness when I can't access meaningful realness!
2006-11-01 03:40:04 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ammmmmmmmmm.............................. I have a pleasure partner. No strings attached. He is my best friend so i love him already but not like a man loves a woman.
2006-11-01 03:00:40 · answer #4 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Self help" will get rid of the urge temporarily, i think you should try it just to make yourself control your desire.
2006-11-01 03:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't control it. I give it full flight, and follow where it leads.
2006-11-01 02:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust ! It Works For Me !
2006-11-01 03:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
breathe
2006-11-01 03:20:11 · answer #8 · answered by st.uncumber 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋