I had a special friend in net for 6mos... We got closer with each other.... though we never meet yet. We talked about personal feelings, until one day he proposed his love to me and said he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I hesitate to say yes, because we never met yet... I found him very gentleman , very sweet and caring the way we chat with each other. Yet for me its not an assurance because we are just in chat...he was heel over head promising he was very honest to me.... but there are times i saw him in cam having gestures not intended for me..One time lately few weeks ago, we were chatting happily and sweetly with each other, then suddenly he calls me with a name not mine. I quickly blurt out, telling him its not my name.... Example - my name is Tim but he called me Shane...I got angry .. he explained its the name of his officemate who is 50 yrs. old and said he is wondering why he typed her name...Would you believe his alibi.? I cried,he cried coz I bid bye for gud
2006-11-01 02:36:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Online relationships are very iffy. It's mostly conversation and you don't even know what the person looks like. If you are comfortable meeting this man, go ahead and do so but make sure that you take a friend with you, you are in a crowded place, and you're familiar with your surroundings. The fact that he professed his love to you is very strange, despite the fact that you guys haven't seen each other yet. Don't believe a word he says because it is just online talking. Continue to meet new people in person- not just online. Move on to bigger and better things in life. I hope this helps. Best of luck.
2006-11-01 02:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past I was a naughty on liner. I often got chat buddies confused.
You are probably placed in his "good boy/girl" category.
This person has many faces and you are shown just one. I would personally not trust someone that would profess love when they haven't met me. When we are on line we are in a particular state of mind and are not being watched. We act in a certain way that is unnatural. The chat arena is like being a lab rat in a controlled environment. If you busted this dude making "gestures" you've just seen a glimpse of the other side of him. It might be really ugly
Physical attraction is important and that consists of more that being attracted to some picture. Face-to-face time with someone is important. Noticing the little gestures they make. The way they smile. Their natural body language and responses to what you say and do.
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Proceed with caution!
2006-11-01 02:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online relationships are shaky and very iffy. If you haven't met in person, maybe you should try it (ONLY if you are comfortable doing so). Make sure its a place you know, a place you drive yourself to, and crowded. I'm not sure if this is the first time you've done this.
But I personally wouldn't believe his professions of love if you have never met because there is so much more to love than just conversation. Make sure it is love and not infatuation.
2006-11-01 02:41:03 · answer #3 · answered by tiger_lilly33186 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's so easy to profess love on the web.
I feel bad for poor Shane, a woman with a mans name.
You decide if you still want to be friends but don't let romanticism get in your way, I don't think it was meant to be.
2006-11-01 02:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by aeseeke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actual, i encounter judgmental human beings interesting besides as tutorial. to inform absolutely the actuality, we are ALL “judgmental” in our own way… That’s how we confirm out who the nut-jobs are. (a minimum of how I see 'it')
2016-12-05 10:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy's a weirdo to propose marriage to someone he's never even met. Don't believe it. Don't be so naive.
2006-11-01 02:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cried over a person you've never met? OMG
2006-11-01 02:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... it's only an on-line relationship and at best is superficial. Move on to the real world.
2006-11-01 02:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by deerslyr_71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a lier and a cheater, do you want a relationship with someone like that.
2006-11-01 02:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by flutterby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to long and if u ask that then u r
2006-11-01 02:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by Playboy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋