girls want to be around her
calling her their mom or sister
2006-11-01 02:36:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think I speak for all little sisters here!
I had the same feelings towards my sister too. She had boyfirends, she got a sports car, she got married, she had better jobs, went to a college. Everything she did, was better than me.
Friends and family began to compare us, and after awhile I began to feel left out and ignored. Even worse, I began to feel like a loser compared to her. It was just awful. I couldn't talkt o my parents about it either, because I thought they would get mad, and call me selfish.
But as I got older, my perspective changed. My sister got to do all the cool stuff because she was older - I was looking up to her and comparing myself to someone much older than myself.
I was not being fair to myself.
I concentrated on having fun in the areas that I exceeded in. As I began to have successes, my sister begain to notice ME! All this time, she was proud of me and I never knew it because I was absorbed in feeling sorry for myself!
My sister still exceeds me in most areas, but when the chips are down, she knows I will always be there for her. She loves me and I can now appreciate that love.
Your sister loves you too and probably has no idea about how you feel. You need to resolve this issue yourself, within yourself. Find your own strengths and persue them! You just may be surprised!
Take care and good luck!
2006-11-01 04:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. When my big sis moved to another part of Europe, I missed her so much, and when I went to visit, she had a whole new life, new friends, new everything. I was so jealous that other people could have more contact with my sis than I could. I'll admit I would throw major sulks ! then after several years and visits, i got to know her friends, and most important of all, I really got to know how much I mean to my sis and her love for me. That love was here to stay, regardless of having a new life, my sis was still the same as she'd always been as a person. Don't let jealousy eat you up, be happy for your sis and join in with the chat when others come round. She'll always be your sister, not theirs, so be proud of her and she'll be proud of you.
2006-11-01 02:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what your asking. Is it just sister rivalry? If your just jealous about her popularity ignore that part of her! Don't let it get to you, I'm sure some day you'll have something she's real jealous of.
And by the way did you just create a new word, "canido"? That's freaking awesome, kudos!!!
2006-11-01 02:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by aeseeke 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋