another problem i got is this naughty smile in my face . i find it hard to show respect to people , really . although i feel sympathy to people .
whatever is the issue i cant hide this stupid naughty laugh .
i am aware of it and the people who i talk to feel i am not respcting them .
what shud i do to wipe off this naughty laugh and be serious ?
i know its a stupid question ...but i am way to easy going person at time
and i have supeirority complex sometime that i am genius( thought its not a fact) and all .
2006-11-01 02:23:11 · 6 answers · asked by WaterGuy 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
surely thats one thing i try ...but it turns out to be too high tension when i talk in that way .i will drain the other person of his energy with my serious looks . i am an INTJ and when i look at someone I spend some energy ....if u know what i mean
2006-11-01 02:30:13 · update #1
Ask urself honestly, what do u think of other people. I mean at a subconscious level i feel may be u really do not think that people around u deserve respect. The sympathy u feel is superficial.
So begin where the root cause is.
Question these assumptions about other people that u have. That they are fools, they dont know such simple things, they dont know how to talk, dress, behave....... it might be anything.
The moment u realize that people around u may not be good at certain things at which u excel, but do have their own strong points this 'naughty smile' from u face should vanish.
This is not something which u can achieve in a day. I mean first u need to really respect people deep in your heart. For that u need to treat them as ur equals in every sense of the term. u need to be in their shoes. That is never easy.
But at least u seem to realize that there is something wrong in ur attitude. That is a beginning indeed.
2006-11-01 02:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This problem is fixable too! To work on it, look in a mirror sometime, and try to see what your smile looks like. When you see what you want it to be, by adjusting your face, see how that feels. Then when meeting people, think of something very honest. If you can hold this thought, your smile will come out honest too. Also, it's not bad to be easy going. Just try to mix it up a little during the whole convo, maybe at first when talking to them try the honest approach, then mid convo switch to normal with a joke or something. In the end, your going to be yourself, so if that's you, try to work with it. Not tear it down completely.
2006-11-01 02:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a difficult question!!!aaaa aaaaa u can just hide your face with your hand or u look somwhere else or simply u just dont talk to serious people .
That is all i could say!!!1
2006-11-01 02:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by dija 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure ...i do smile .....and that smile is from the middle .....it is asserted as a reflex action by using fact u don't comprehend why the different individual is smiling and you do no longer even intend to grin yet then additionally you smile....its something unexpected ...and once you notice somebody specific smiling the smile will become greater suitable .
2016-12-28 09:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by sessums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of someone cutting your dick..that's sad, it's painful and summin you can understand lol
2006-11-01 02:30:58 · answer #5 · answered by pokerface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of something sad or serisous when your talking to them?
2006-11-01 02:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by Rachael S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋