And my fiance is 39. We are on long distance, he try to talk on the phone, i am shy. i dont know what to do? I am nervious? any suggestions?
2006-11-01 02:20:18 · 16 answers · asked by Fantasy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just be glad you will finally be rid of your virginity.
2006-11-01 02:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by me8md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know its your first time? If not you should tell him. Past that let things go naturally, no need to be wild in bed, easy steps and learn from each other. Read a few books, don't believe the porn you see. Good luck
2006-11-01 10:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by JoeP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your getting marriedi n Dec and you havn't had sex. are you waiting til your married. so he wants to have phone sex and your to shy. well there are some web sites that can help you ease into it. I was the same way, I was a virgin til I married my hubby.he is a marine and we were long distance for months. I asked him to teach me.
2006-11-01 10:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be logical about this situation. First of all you have not physically seen each other, therfore there is no remedy in your relationship. What if he is not gentile or he is not the way you want him to be in a physical relationship. Statistically 70% of relationships are involved in physical relationship, unless there is a prior existing prearrangement, your not obligated to commit to this relationship.
2006-11-01 10:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by John H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry dear. It shows that your serious. Being a virgin is a virtue; give yourself a thumb up!!
Dont worry about sex coz u dont have to learn. Goats can do it very well, are they taught??? You better than animal, IT JUST COMES NATURALLY!
2006-11-01 10:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by mulumengesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books about what to expect once you get married and what to do on your wedding night. Educate yourself in this area; but don't seek any "practical education."
2006-11-01 10:22:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U must be from the SubContinent.Enjoy this nervousness till the night when ur cherry is broken.
2006-11-01 10:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, your 25,
Suggestion: your fiance is an old man.
2006-11-01 10:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Heather M 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
see if you can get a muscle relaxer online and some lubricant the first times are painful.
2006-11-01 10:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy PR Mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nature always takes over you will be fine . Be sure he knows , so he will be gentle .
2006-11-01 10:24:44 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋