LARRY YOU DO NEED 2 GO SEE CONSELER
BUT RIGHT NOW WE NEED TIME APART
I STILL WANT 2 BE YOUR FRIEND AND I CARE ABOUT
YOU BUT WE NEED TIME APART .....OKAY
This is what she says to me because she's never around .
When im going through the darkest nights alone because my Gf died .
You tell me what you think about a friend that says they care but they don't.
2006-11-01 02:13:06 · 7 answers · asked by lorenzo p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Did it occur to you that your friend may have her own things going on and her own problems to deal with? She may want to be there for you, but have to deal with her own stuff too.
If you ask me she does care about you a great deal and it hurts her to see you hurting so much and that is why she is telling you that you need time apart.
2006-11-01 02:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Netto 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With friends there generally isn't an extremely hassle-free difficulty. i for my area because of the fact that they have been my friends might attempt to besides as available say something approximately it. Then if no transformations got here approximately i might start up progressively chatting with persons further and added and discover extra desirable friends that are supportive. generally it avoids a great combat between you and the persons. yet you by no skill know what'll ensue, everybodys different.
2016-11-26 21:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first I'm sorry she died. But she's probly right because you grieving about her to your friend is probly putting her in the blues too. But she does care. Try not to talk about her that much. Like write poems or write in a journal. Things like that will make you feel much better. well I hope things get much better!
2006-11-01 02:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by ♥£eah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but it's possible you'd gotten too emotionally dependent on her and didn't realize it. I would say she does still care, but just needs some breathing room. How long ago did your girlfriend die?
2006-11-01 13:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by postcardtrader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is right; have you changed a lot since your girlfriend died? Been doing anything dangerous or strange?
2006-11-01 02:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend really does care about you, but your grief is getting her down. She is trying to help you get over your loss. I hope you can feel happiness again soon. x
2006-11-01 02:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just can't stand to see you so sad. Why don't you try to get some help for yourself? Maybe she doesn't know what to do for you. Don't be so hard on her and try to fix yourself.
2006-11-01 02:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋