When i saw Tipping the velvet a few years ago i was quite young (14 / 15) and only happened to catch a few moments of it, and after that i didnt think much of it.
When i got married a few months ago (my culture believes in no sex before marriage) and after i got familiar with my husband (if you know what i mean!) i told him about tipping the velvet. He hadnt seen it before but the next day he came back with it on DVD!!
We watched it together and it was a real turn on!! and now we can't stop from watching it, it's our favourite DVD!!
The only thing is, is it wrong for me to get turned on by lesbians, does it make me a lesbian or bi?
By the way, my husband doesn't have any problem with it. We have even started watching soft lesbian porn which also does the trick too!!
2006-11-01 01:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by just_wandered 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Congraulations on finding something that works for the pair of you together.
A big percentage of females often wonder about sexual encounters with another woman, so as we are not all bi or lesbian, I would suggest there is nothing to worry about.
2006-11-04 22:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tipping the Velvet is a nice movie; I preferred the book, but the idea of lesbian cross-dressers is nothing but a turn-on for me! I'm glad you and your husband enjoy it together!
It certainly isn't wrong for you to get turned on by lesbians. Does it make you a lesbian or bi? The only thing that makes you lesbian or bi is if you find yourself sexually attracted to women. If you just like watching two girls get it on and can't figure out why, I'm not sure what it means other than that you are a very sexual creature who responds well to eroticism (which is a fun way to live life!). If, however, that applies but you also could imagine yourself having a fun little roll in the hay with Nan or Kitty, then you are bisexual or lesbian. As long as men do it for you as well, you are bisexual.
Have fun with this! I'm so glad your husband is on board. Enjoy!
2006-11-01 10:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband are happy together and attracted to each other then what's the problem? Don't over-analyse things.
Most couples have different ways to get them going, if you both enjoy watching lesbian shows, embrace it and make the most out of your sex life.
2006-11-02 22:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by leper madonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 02:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by corl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't be worrying about it!
Many women have fantasies about sleeping with other women, i know I do! It doesn't mean you are gay or bi sexual.
If you both enjoy it, then go for it! It is nice that you have found something that you both like to watch together.
2006-11-01 01:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are just curious, from how it sounds. Which is perfectly normal. Women are more open-minded than men in general. You are bi or lesbian if you ACT OUT these fantasies.
2006-11-01 01:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a lesbian but tipping the velvet isn't turn me on at all, thats a good lesbian story.
2006-11-01 01:55:20 · answer #7 · answered by classy naima 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as your husband and yourself are happy and having a good time - don't worry about it - life is too short - have fun! x
2006-11-04 22:28:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't read too much into it. If your happy with your Husband then just enjoy yourself.
2006-11-04 22:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by kitpoodle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Lots of us straights enjoy viewing a bit of minge-munching.
2006-11-01 01:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋