it has nothing to do with appearance. and in my own experience, the ugly people that i encountered are very mean. they are decietful, and they lie a lot. they also backstab their friends. so who's saying they're nice? they are very far from being nice. i don't understand why people automatically think that ugly people are nice.
they are so mean, but why?
2006-11-01 01:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's terrible when someone is ugly on the inside and outside as that means they have absolutely no redeeming features. Maybe they are so sick of people treating them badly because of their looks they get all angry on the inside.
2006-11-01 01:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why do people assume that a person is nice when they're already ugly?
Maybe because they already feel sad about that person and they just want to give them the benefit of the doubt. Plus, there's also that belief with some fairy tales like the nice frog turning into a prince that may add to that belief that ugly people are really nice.
I mean if the ugly person's mean, let's not judge them right away. They may have a very hard time growing up because they may not have been treated well and who can blame them for not acting as nicely if that has all they have recieved?
Everyone has some niceness inside of them. No one is 100% evil or 100% good. If you want to see the meaness in someone may they be good looking or not, just continue being mean to them and I'm sure they'd continue being that.
2006-11-01 09:52:00 · answer #2 · answered by Lea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who says ugly people are nice? If you go by 'beauty is only skin deep' than ugly is only skin deep too, I guess. Beauty and ugliness are both value judgments and reflect a preference. Some really stereotypically beautiful are really ugly because they aren't nice people and vice versa. Your question is based in such a sweeping generalization that it doesn't really ask anything--it just says that you think ugly people are mean. Perhaps they are mean because you call them ugly?
2006-11-01 09:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by AJ F 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They don't. Ugly can go to the bone and both ugly and innerly ugly is a witch. I think we like to think all people have good in them. Some don't.
We are taught that look to the inside, but evil can be just as prevelant in ugly as it is in beauty. IT just does not trick you as bad.
2006-11-01 09:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cy Gold 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they are so mean that is what makes them so ugly on the outside. That is usually my experience with people.
2006-11-01 09:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋