we split almost 2 months ago cause he said it's better if we would just be friends(I was really hurt cause I adored him). Couple days ago he invites me over to his place(indecent proposal) .. I say I'll be there in 2 hours.After 2 hours I text saying that I thought about it ..and that I'm going out with my friends instead and we should leave it for a Monday or so...He starts threathning me like... "your life would have been easyer if you wouldhave just came over" and he tells me.. "you dont know what a hard life is but you will find out very soon " I say "I dont understand u " .. he says " what u need to understand is that u shouldnt f**** with powerful people" ....... Was all that said in a moment of rage and then forgoten? do guys tend to talk like that in a moment like that ?
2006-11-01 01:05:23 · 4 answers · asked by lilihoney123 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You're lucky you got rid of him. Sounds like he was pissed because you blew him off though--perhaps he thought you ditched him for another guy. Definitely not the reaction of a friend.
Don't generalize 'guys' based on someone like that. We're individuals and we all react differently.
2006-11-01 02:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by AJ F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They only talk like that if they are mentally/emotionally unstable. You should stay away from this guy. He obviously has serious instability not to mention control issues. Him controlling himself as well as trying to control you. People like this can become very dangerous. It usually starts with mean/degrading remarks and goes from there. If you haven't seen anything like this from him before, obviously his true self is just starting to surface. He has now threatened you. It would be in your best interest to halt all contact with him. If he doesn't adhere to your request, I would contact the police and make a report.
2006-11-01 09:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Oracle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very hard question to answer. See if you can have a one on one and find out what is truly going on. Tell him that you are not going to take threats.
2006-11-01 09:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, he's really trying to play you. He's trying different strategies because he's hoping you're dumb enough to fall for one of them.
2006-11-01 09:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋