Is it possible for a girl to have multiple orgasms? If so, how is that possible? What does she or the guy do?

Question

What I meant to ask was, how it happens. What guys do or what we girls do for it to be possible to happen.

I need more answers.

Answer 1

Well, I totally agree with the other answerers, being that this is in adolescent area and that you are too young. To add to that I personally believe that sex before marriage is a sin called fornication. (after marriage with someone else is adultery).

Being that it's likely that if you are young, perhaps the "problem" with acheiving your "goal" of having a multiple orgasm is likely, sad to say, having to do with him and what he does. A (mature)woman (that knows what she's doing) can help change that though. First of all foreplay for a woman is rather important usually to be able to orgasm (and then have multiple). This actually for many even adult women involves time of holding, gently caressing, kissing and even massaging for extended times without out sex, before sex to get her in the right mood. And then even extended amounts of oral sex can help if you want to give her a "head start" (that can be frusterating for men when they are already turned on) Many, even adult men, naturally shall we say - go limp after they have their time of experiencing their orgasm - also rather most younger men orgasm quickER at a younger age for most males due to inexperience. This is not to say that I think that you should experiment with older guys - because for one that over 18 there is a much more serious legal problem especially if you are under 18.

If he goes limp after his orgasm then it leaves a time when the female isn't being aroused...That leads to her having to basically start over. An example I heard long ago is still true. Men are more like microwaves and women are more like crock pots (when it comes to sex). If he can get hard quick enough after his orgasm, his second orgasm usually isn't as quick (and his third will take even longer) so that gives more time for her to get her multiple. So one of the things to try is getting him hard again while still keeping her aroused, "69" works for that where both give and both receive oral sex at the same time. As basic as I can explain, he lies on his back and she "sits" on his face carefully and then she orally sucks him at the same time until he is hard enough again to reenter. Keep in mind that perhaps taste is an issue, first be clean, and use something to cover up the taste if needed - chocolate syrup is fun, cheap and easy to clean up (lick up). There is perhaps at a younger age the issue of protection and condoms (I've not used in years as I'm married and I also rather enjoy the taste of my wife) she however does still not enjoy the taste of sperm...I however can orgasim in her (without stopping to change a condom) and keep going without stopping. This causes my sperm to lubricate her more and when it is wetter it feels better for both. KY can be used to start or whenever needed to help with lubrication. The longest that I have ever kept (and used actively) an erection is 5 hours - but even I was sore after that including my back, legs, penis and even arms from holding myself up in the pushup position for much of that time. I lost count after I had 12 orgasims (but I think it was either 14 or 15) and she basically had one very very long orgasm for a couple hours. There are exercises for the inner vaginal muscles called Kegel exercises that basically are those muscles that when you really really have to go pee and you squeeze to keep yourself from peeing... well if well developed, then a woman can voluntarily flex her vaginal muscles and squeeze around a mans erection. It allows a tighter feeling for him but it also increases sensation for her as well. There are "shows" (not usually in the US but I did see in Thailand) where a woman literally lays on her back, legs spread and shoots ping pong balls (or various other things) out of her vagina. like small darts, gold fish, and even stacks of coins - (not kidding - talk about a slot machine!) ...soooooo on that note I'll be done with the very "frank" talk about the extended birds and the bees talk that I never got...I bet even many parents don't know a thing about Kegel.

Answer 2

Yes it is very possible, girls can have LOTS of orgasms and for this to happen 2 things have to take place.

1) The guy has to be able to go for a long time with withgold from coming during your first orgasm

2) You have to really love the guy and really enjoy the sex

However for girls 1 really good orgasm can be just as good a 3 lesser ones, other than that its up to personal preference.

Answer 3

Yes, I make it happen with all the women I've been with. Is it possible with an adolescent girl? (This question WAS posted in Adolescent, I'm not the perv here.) Possible, yes, likely, no. Younger girls are too uptight to relax enough to have even one, let alone many. Orgasms have to be learned, so to speak. As for how, there are many sources of information on the subject of better sex, knowledge is indeed power in this arena. Do your homework, and multiple orgasms will be as easy as falling off a rolling log.

Answer 4

To be perfectly honest with you only a small percent of women are multi-orgasmic (multiple orgasms), I believe it's only 10%. There are several things to consider: the relationship you have with your partner - emotional connection, level of trust, openness in the relationship (being able to talk about likes and dislikes in the area of relations - sex), and touch. What I am talking about is making love not sex, and trust there is a difference.

It has nothing to do with what your partner does or you do to make it happen - meaning there are no special tricks.

A great book for you and your partner to read is "The Joy of Sex". This book is a great book to read together, and it is a nice way to open the doors and build comfort in talking about things you want to try or experience. A little secret MEN can have multiple orgasms as well.

Answer 5

Darling, you first need to grow up and experience the other things in life. You are clearly still very young and niave or else you wouldn't be asking such questions. But to answer you - yes it is possible and you will know what to do when the time is right. Put thoughts of sex out of your mind and enjoy being a child

Answer 6

Yes, of course it is possible. However, very young women usually do not have multiple orgasms for whatever reason. Sex really does get better as you get older!!

Answer 7

Yes, chicks are lucky. For it to happen you just have to keep going. Find out what gets you there the first time, and don't stop once it starts working. Most ladies have to have the clit stimulated in order to climax. So, I would start there. Good luck and stop bragging. :v). Guys got the raw end on this one.

Answer 8

It happens.
My wife has 3 or 4, but they all build, and if she doesn't get the last one, it's like she got none at all.
So, does she want one really big one or a lot of little ones.

Answer 9

well for a guy thats our job to please the woman to make her have multiple orgasms......if u tell your female friends about this they may try to take your man......to further more answer the question, it make the guy look real good that he's doing his job.

Answer 10

Well, I totally agree with the other answerers, being that this is in adolescent area and that you are too young. To add to that I personally believe that sex before marriage is a sin called fornication. (after marriage with someone else is adultery).

Being that it's likely that if you are young, perhaps the "problem" with acheiving your "goal" of having a multiple orgasm is likely, sad to say, having to do with him and what he does. A (mature)woman (that knows what she's doing) can help change that though. First of all foreplay for a woman is rather important usually to be able to orgasm (and then have multiple). This actually for many even adult women involves time of holding, gently caressing, kissing and even massaging for extended times without out sex, before sex to get her in the right mood. And then even extended amounts of oral sex can help if you want to give her a "head start" (that can be frusterating for men when they are already turned on) Many, even adult men, naturally shall we say - go limp after they have their time of experiencing their orgasm - also rather most younger men orgasm quickER at a younger age for most males due to inexperience. This is not to say that I think that you should experiment with older guys - because for one that over 18 there is a much more serious legal problem especially if you are under 18.

If he goes limp after his orgasm then it leaves a time when the female isn't being aroused...That leads to her having to basically start over. An example I heard long ago is still true. Men are more like microwaves and women are more like crock pots (when it comes to sex). If he can get hard quick enough after his orgasm, his second orgasm usually isn't as quick (and his third will take even longer) so that gives more time for her to get her multiple. So one of the things to try is getting him hard again while still keeping her aroused, "69" works for that where both give and both receive oral sex at the same time. As basic as I can explain, he lies on his back and she "sits" on his face carefully and then she orally sucks him at the same time until he is hard enough again to reenter. Keep in mind that perhaps taste is an issue, first be clean, and use something to cover up the taste if needed - chocolate syrup is fun, cheap and easy to clean up (lick up). There is perhaps at a younger age the issue of protection and condoms (I've not used in years as I'm married and I also rather enjoy the taste of my wife) she however does still not enjoy the taste of sperm...I however can orgasim in her (without stopping to change a condom) and keep going without stopping. This causes my sperm to lubricate her more and when it is wetter it feels better for both. KY can be used to start or whenever needed to help with lubrication. The longest that I have ever kept (and used actively) an erection is 5 hours - but even I was sore after that including my back, legs, penis and even arms from holding myself up in the pushup position for much of that time. I lost count after I had 12 orgasims (but I think it was either 14 or 15) and she basically had one very very long orgasm for a couple hours. There are exercises for the inner vaginal muscles called Kegel exercises that basically are those muscles that when you really really have to go pee and you squeeze to keep yourself from peeing... well if well developed, then a woman can voluntarily flex her vaginal muscles and squeeze around a mans erection. It allows a tighter feeling for him but it also increases sensation for her as well. There are "shows" (not usually in the US but I did see in Thailand) where a woman literally lays on her back, legs spread and shoots ping pong balls (or various other things) out of her vagina. like small darts, gold fish, and even stacks of coins - (not kidding - talk about a slot machine!) ...soooooo on that note I'll be done with the very "frank" talk about the extended birds and the bees talk that I never got...I bet even many parents don't know a thing about Kegel.