if you had a friend who has cancer and knows that that person wont live longer then 21-25 and also lives in another state and is your best friend?
my friend has heart problems n shes 20 she moved to another state not to long ago and it scares me everytime shes in the hospital. and im not there.
2006-11-01 01:02:27 · 5 answers · asked by y0ur Face 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
unless youre a doctor or have a lot of faith in God, there's really not much you can do about the situation. but you can do a lot to make your friend's time left be as happy as possible. keep in touch with her. show her a great time as much as you can. introduce her to other friends that can help her enjoy herself when youre not around. keep telling her youre thinking about her and keep giving her hope
hope, love and fun. thats the most important and valueable gifts you can give to your friend. tell her a whole bunch of yahoo's are sending her our best wishes
2006-11-01 01:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you dont want to move maybe you should visit her once in a while in the hospital. I know its all the way in another state but it shouldn't care if you two are best friends.
2006-11-01 09:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her write letters send her little cards just because try to visit if you can say your prayers for her and ask God not to let her suffer build all the memories that you can and keep them in your heart forever just try to keep her spirits up miracles can happen she could get better against all odds but if not it is still a miracle because when she goes to live in Heaven there will be no more pain or sickness and she will be smiling down on you everytime the sun shines have a good day and tell her you love her
2006-11-01 09:11:47 · answer #3 · answered by angel afraid and sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please go to her and support her, she must be in need to a real friend with her, if u are busy i'm sure u can find a short time to travel to her, a week end or whatever
if it's really difficult, please keep in touch with her, call her for looong conversations, and don't make things looks too bad, tell her that she will leave 5years, and there is many people who will leave only 5days! so she should thank God for everything because there is always a worst case!!
life is so short anyway, 5years, 10years, 100years, we wil; all die finaly, the most important is how will we die, will poeple remember us as a lovely and nice person?is what we are doing in this life good for us and for poeple around us?
tell her that she just have to enjoy those 5years and to be better than she was!
good luck!
2006-11-01 09:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by curious girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sad but if you don't want to move i don't know what you should do then
2006-11-01 09:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋