Is it normal for my fiance to me really angry and snappy with me most of the time, it seem's at the moment i cant do anything right and she keeps blaming it on the fact she is pregnant, is this true?
2006-11-01 00:49:03 · 12 answers · asked by Simon T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If she's angry while she's pregnant, just wait until that baby keeps her up all night!
2006-11-01 00:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by CDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be, I'm pregnant myself, and have never felt so out of control with my emotions. I'm not saying it's all hormones though, often times it's just that something that normally is easy to ignore has become harder to tolerate, so if you are doing something she never liked, now might be the time that she will bring it up, even though it didn't seem like a big deal before. My poor boyfriend has dealt with plenty of this in the last few months, And believe me, some of my anger was completely justified, while some of it was petty. The key is to be patient with her, and try to realize that her whole world has become a much more difficult place, As much as she might be snappy and critical, she needs you to be there and be strong for her. Best of Luck, and congrats on the baby!!
2006-11-01 09:54:45 · answer #2 · answered by 2much2do 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and breathe, she's just saying you are now a very important part of her and her future....hey have you ever thought of getting married.........fiance...maybe she wants to be married before the baby is born...so what's holding you back.
Perhaps she's unhappy about something....try to talk to her.
She needs you to be supporting, soothing, and understand that her body is going through changes, and she can't explain them to you.
So give her a back rub, foot massage, and buy her flowers and bring her ....this is old fashioned....a fruit basket, and chocolate cake and whatever else is her favorite, and that changes throughout pregnancy.
You are doing the right thing by listening to her....just be nice and considerate as her gift to you...a child...will last a lifetime.
May God truely bless all of your dreams!
2006-11-01 08:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is true. It seems unfair, but the hormones going through her system cause mood swings. For guys, it seems that no matter how much they do to try and make things better, they are always in trouble.
While it won't make the mood swings go away, talk about it so when it does happen you can start making jokes about it, so you can both laugh about it. Trust me it isn't fun for her either. this is what my partner and I did.
2006-11-01 08:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hormones govern the way a woman acts while pregnant.
Yes, it is all your fault.
Accept it.
Once she gives birth, you will be the father of her baby and can do no wrong for a short time.
Enjoy it, it doesn't last.
But then you two have a baby to love, and it doesn't get better than that.
Love her, love your baby, it's all wonderful after that.
2006-11-01 09:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is very common when being pregnant i'm always getting ticked off and upset with mine. he says i make him feel like he can't do anything right which isn't true at all. (i was worse when i was pregnant with my son because i was basically a b**** so don't worry just be patient it will eventually go away.
2006-11-01 08:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by divatrucker25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be. Her hormones are all over the place. The shift in hormones can cause mood swings, more severe for some women than others.
2006-11-01 08:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by just me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal. You are a bad man and will be punished for getting her up the spout before making an honest woman of her. The Lord moves in mysterious ways.
2006-11-01 08:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My poor husband is suffering because of my crazy moodswings. I hate myself for them. But just be there for her. I know if feels like you have to eat alot of Sh*& But she can't help it.
2006-11-01 09:25:57 · answer #9 · answered by shikk79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep normal just remember her body is working really hard right now help her out with stuff!
2006-11-01 13:47:22 · answer #10 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋