Okay, I got up and took a shower this morning, went to school, and completely forgot to brush out my hair. I get to school, and this snobish ***** says "Are you going to brush your hair?" I replied "yeah, just not right now, let it dry some.". Well then she replied with "It looks disguisting" I replied with " Well your face looks disgusting, and no one says anything about yours" Now mind you I am constantly annoyed with this girl and her friends. I did have a brush with me in my backpack and i did brush my hair now, I just wanted to let it dry so that the back of my shirt wouldn't be so wet.How should I deal with her next time she says something to me?
2006-11-01 00:41:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hiya Donna
The next time she comes of with a smart remark to you, ASK HER IS THERE ANY MIRROR'S IN HER HOUSE. That will soon shut her up.
2006-11-01 00:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by chass_lee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what you should say. I find the sarcasm is the best way to handle these people dry sarcasm and then you have to ignore them. You have to be quick on your feet though and it seems that you are. You also have to know your opponent, know her weakness and attack. Just do not let it get to a physical thing if you think that it is going to escalate to violence then you should get someone of a higher authority involved. But this is classic school yard BS. Once you get her really good she will more than likely back off.
2006-11-01 00:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time she says something to you that upsets you, just wish her a great day. Why? Because she won't have an answer for you and you will totally blow her away. She says things to you only to get a reaction out of you. So give her one she isn't expecting.
2006-11-01 00:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey the best thing for people like that is to kill them with kindness. It eats them right up. When she says crap just say something like, "you look very nice to day to." Or oh your shirt is just darling. It will eat her that you do not care what she thinks. If she does not get a rise out of you she will stop.
2006-11-01 00:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her some people feed on hurting and insulting others their lives are so empty and shallow that they look for ways to bother others you know misery loves company if someone nags and nags at you and you ignore them long enough they will look for someone else to get to they will get so bored if they cant drag you into their misery that they will finally give up and leave you alone better to ignore them than to say something back that puts you in their category have a good day and smile awhile good luck
2006-11-01 00:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by angel afraid and sad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah you must be a teenager. Most girls at this age are very catty. They do and say the meanest things to one another. Try ignoring her. Don't stoop to her level and respond. Don't treat people with disrespect, no matter how mean they may be to you. Ignor her and just keep movin'!
2006-11-01 00:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That falls under - Misery loves company - don't let her get to you. She is probably so unhappy with herself she needs to pick and put others down to make herself feel better.
You are beautiful just the way you are!!! Have a great day!
2006-11-01 00:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to deal with people like is to just look at them like they are crazy. People that ask stupid questions like that either deserve a stupid look or a stupid answer. But the best way is to tell that person yeah and just walk away so you won't have a big argument.
2006-11-01 00:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by Babtkat357 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should say the opposite of what she excpects. Like you shoulda just said, no I am not gonna brush my hair. Or you shoudl answer using a lot of long complicated words to confuse her!
2006-11-01 00:46:05 · answer #9 · answered by terra_chan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did fine. Just never look annoyed with her comments, never let her see that she got into you. Act like you dont care about what she thinks. Being confident is key. Good Luck! ♥
2006-11-01 00:48:50 · answer #10 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋