I do not have a desire & never have to masturbate, but my boyfriend probable does 4-5 times a week (he is not sexually deprived)? 1st-Is it normal not to have a desire to masturbate? 2nd-is masturbating 4-5 times a week too much?
2006-11-01 00:18:21 · 15 answers · asked by pure sweetness 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Masturbation is normal as long as it doesn't interfere with relationships with people other than oneself. In adolescence it is actually transitional to interest in others through the accompanying fantasies. Men teend to be more interested than women and tend to do it more often. There is nothing wrong with not masturbating.
2006-11-01 00:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Masturbation is the modern way for our society to help relax our stressor we don't have partner for a while. Masturbation 4-5 time aweeks is ok but take 4-5 a day.
2006-11-01 01:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by Komsat/sad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As per today's modern medicine there is no harm if you do it a certain number of times a day. I am not a doctor/expert but I know this by reading. But, still I will try to answer by an anology. As per modern science, energy can neither be created nor destroyed. And as per Indian medicine Ayurveda, food is digested to Rasa (Plasma) first then it is tranformed to 6 other elements called dhatus (final one is semen) and then finally to an essence calle Ojas. The more Ojas you have the more strength of body and mind you have. Also, you can relate it directly to the immune power you have. This Ojas is depleted if you waste your semen. Coming back to modern science, if food is assimilated and converted to creae an enegry called Ojas, then it will be spent also and will be spent via loss of semen. So, you know why you should do less sex and avoid masturbation. So, you have to maintain a balance. If fortunately, you have lot of Ojas then you will have great vigour and can do and enjoy sex easily. If you do it lot of time and the Ojas is not created for you appropriately then you know there will be a deficiency and it will lead to physical and mental problems. Also, read book which will be avaialabe from Swami Sivananada on topic called Bramhacharya. He was a doctor by himself and also a scholar and master of this medicine. Let me know if you still need any help. Or read books by Dr. Frawley and Svoboda. They will guide your in your quest.
It is absolutely normal to not have a desire to masturbate. That is a sign of very healthy body and mind. Otherway is not healthy or will lead to ill health if the energy is not recovered. It all depeneds of person to person. The more one will do it, the more energy loss he will have and if it is not recovered (which as I say depeneds on person to person) then it will lead to all kind of problems at mental and hysical levels.
Jai Gurudev!!!
2006-11-01 00:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by Shirish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, “too short” is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
Hope it helps.
2014-09-11 04:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always heard that someone who says they "don't" is not being fully forthcoming with the truth! Choking his chicken 4-5 times a week is about as normal as it gets! There's guys out there doing it 4-5 times a day! Believe me, he can't kill it so let him have his jollies! Maybe more of the "real thing" might curb his desires!
2006-11-01 01:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If you don't want to masturbate then that is fine.
2. Your boyfriend is normal.
2006-11-01 01:26:04 · answer #6 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal and yes.... women do masturbate to some
Have you thought of maybe doing it together, both together or you helping.....and no it's not perverted some people find it very arousing
2006-11-01 01:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation can actually be more 'precise' than sex with a partner, its also a good way to get to know your body and how and what it responds to. By the way some of us are so beautiful that we have to make love to ourselves 4 times a day@%^$£* I mean week, week.
Are you sure you are giving him what he wants by the way?
2006-11-01 00:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by JahMekYa 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every guy masterbates. I'd say the average is probably 3 or 4 times a week. Don't ask why - we just need to.
2006-11-01 00:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by frammie2002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strange, evidently you got low testosteron level!
It's more normal (and health) masturbating every day than having no sexual stimulus as you!
Are you gay or effeminate, maybe?
2006-11-01 02:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by whole_feelings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋