Since 6 months i am trying to have sex with my girlfriend. she is 24 and still virgin. every time i penetrateher by more than a cm,she cries out. she says that it gets painful. she dont want to go on, oviostly we need to stop.
2006-10-31 23:19:51 · 12 answers · asked by Azhar 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Spinal block? Deflorating usually hurts. It helps to do a little cuddling and petting and cunnilingus first to relax and lubricate her. and it helps to do it slowly.
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2006-10-31 23:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by thecookieprince 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Some women do have an issue where there hymen is thicker than normal. Rarely women will need to visit a doctor or gyno to have the hymen cut or removed. She should visit a doctor to make sure everything is allright.
If it is not a physical problem, she just may not be really ready to have intercourse with you, in which case you'll just have to wait until she feels ready.
2006-11-01 03:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by Zarina K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need lots of foreplay, n penetration should be the last thing in sex, try to aroused her, kiss, caress, lick her body, nipples n fingering her clitoris til the point that she wanted you to get in, while going in[penetrating], don't stop all those touching,caress n licking, go slow n stop if she resist, continue with touching her n go slow again, whisper to her how special she is to you n reassure to her that you really wanted her to enjoy but not hurting her, then go slow again, gentle n slow is the key word on a virgin. Good luck !
2006-11-02 17:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by ng 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deflorate
2016-11-15 00:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt no matter what. It may even hurt the first three times, but the first time will be the worse. It's just something she has to go through as a woman.
2006-11-01 00:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Christina K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more passionate. use your imagination. try other things first then work up to having sex. always remember the first time is special and show her that she is special to you. give her all the stops and whistles.
2006-11-01 00:50:09 · answer #6 · answered by buddy95 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really hurts to loose your virginity..She seems as if she is not ready..Sex comes with lubrication..The more she is lubricated, the more she is ready..
2006-10-31 23:22:39 · answer #7 · answered by ladymember 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try general anesthesia?
2006-10-31 23:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by umesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try using lubricants,and get her into mood first
2006-11-01 00:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by shazz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just put your dick on the mouth of her pussey and rapidly enter it the pusse......she will not lot of pain
2014-10-24 10:50:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋