he is 3 years elder than me( i'm 13 and he is 16 ) and everyone is afraid of him( no one wants to fight with him ) and i want to fight against him but don't know how. plz help
2006-10-31 22:16:33 · 12 answers · asked by Arun K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i want to do every thing myself and not tell to anyone and no one wants to even stand near him.
2006-10-31 22:26:42 · update #1
You need to hit him where it hurts. You need to find out what hurts him. Always stand up for yourself. Never be afraid. The more you show fear the more he is going to bully you. Ignore him and say to him next time, why do you feel the need to pick on people? Is it because your such a looser you think that this is the only way to get people to like you? Then say because I hate to tell you, but you don't scare anyone. Everone just thinks you are a looser. And walk away. Trust me this will get to him. He might not leave everyone alone but he'll think twice before picking on you again. Good Luck, and don't let it show you are scared.
2006-10-31 22:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The satisfaction you might get from hurting him is no where near as strong as the satisfaction you get from leaving him be. This is a difficult one sometimes to understand but the power of the spoken word is in the ear of the listener not in the speaker. Only you can give him power over you.
However, if he is forcing himself than it is time to bring in an adult. Talk to your teachers counselors and the principal if need be. Any physical advance or mental anguish is the responsibility for the school to take care of.
If this is not a situation where the school takes proper care of these things than talk to your parents, if you haven't already, and then speak to a police officer.
Bullying or aggressive behavior is not ok. Don't stop until this is taken care of.
If I were to take this on myself I would have to a) not talk to him or face him when he is talking, and b) walk away when I can. Again if he is being physical than that needs an adult to take care of it.
2006-10-31 22:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know what you could do b/c I've never in this situation,but i could stand up to him all bullies have a weakness you just need to find it.Is there anything unusual he does use it against him.
2006-10-31 22:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to ur parents abt it....they will take care of him. Ask everyone to take a stand againist him, whenever he tries to do something all of ur friends should stand together n tell him that ur greater in number.
2006-10-31 22:22:34 · answer #4 · answered by Jeeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him when he is on his own and if that doesn't work just hit him it it worked for me when a boy was bullying me we become friends after that
2006-10-31 22:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by sammlwrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another bully (preferably bigger and meaner than him) and dare him to bully this bigger bully. If that doesn't work then go up to this bigger bully and tell him your bully says he can whip his *** anytime.
If this doesn't work, move to another town.
2006-10-31 22:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Alien 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your teachers and let your parents know, let the adults handle this matter for you.
2006-10-31 22:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by teddytrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid of him. Make him ur friend by giving him choclates...
2006-10-31 22:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the princaple immeaditly
2006-10-31 22:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by arizonaprincess2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the principle
2006-10-31 22:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by ekduin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋