extra marital affairs are good or bad?

Answer 1

doesnt matter which way you look at it......they are bad......marriage is about a commitment between 2 people.....if you cant stick to that then you dont belong in a marriage....

Answer 2

If u have to ask this question, u should know the answer. NO, spelled N O . I was married and now divorced do to having an open marriage. It doesn't work. There needs to be trust in a relationship, if there are extra marital affairs going on, trust is out the window.

Answer 3

Extra marital affairs is not bad as long as allowed by both spouse. What is bad is having an affair without the knowledge of the other spouse. When both of them agree for having one, Why bad? In my expereinced, it will add spice to our sex urges instead. So both of us has maintaining one extra marital affairs. We went out in the same schedule once every month with defferent partners, we arrived on givien time. We are open to each other and never disfute. The most important is we are open to each other, we trust each other without reservation and we respect each other's need, and we are not possessive and selfish. What we avoid is bringing them home. We have the limitation to enjoy ourselves outside not at home so that our kids may not know what we had done outside. So I let my wife ligated to avoid being preg. We also not receiving gifts to be brought at home.
We regulary talked about how we had enjoyed our times with deferrent partners before we are going to sleep so we were excited more than ever and we make love more hungrier.

Answer 4

We agree with Bong U. If it is open and honest - it can add spice to a marriage. So many people need more than a traditional marriage. Just look at how high the divorce and infidelity rates are. It is clear that people want more and affairs are one way to have more without the dreaded divorce. Some people feel that it is better to have a divorce first before seeing someone else. Well, why don't you ask your spouse what they think before divorcing them? Some people may choose to keep their spouse and just let them date on occasion rather than lose them forever in a divorce.

Answer 5

They are very hurtful. Trust is broken. Children are hurt. Your mate is now worried about whether he/she now has the AIDS virus, or any other Sexually Transmitted Disease. He/she is worried that this may happen again. The person you were having the extra marital affair with, boyfriend/husband orgirlfriend/wife may try to hurt for for trying to break up their relationship or marriage. And godforbid if they also have children. YES it is BAD. And i really think you already know this.

Answer 6

There's a saying that you cannot serve two lords well, for someone will eventually be harmed. If you need to have intimate relationship outside your own marriage it's because you are missing something there. Marriage should be a partnership relation, if you are having any problems there, first you should try to fix it. Think about your being the cheated party. How would you feel. How much do you invest in your marriage?

Answer 7

bad 99999/100000...rarely does it fail to affect yr marriage adversely....so be very careful on it...u stand less than 0.1% of chance to have a healthy marital life if u indulge in extra marital affair...dont give in to the temptation...all the best!

Answer 8

It is possible it can be good depending on the situation.

If kept 100% secrete and is just sex it may stabilize the home situation if that need can not be met at home.

Classic risk vs reward scenario.

Answer 9

Bad. Puts spouse at a risk for STDs, shows that you don't respect your spouse, and illustrates that there is something that must be off about the original relationship.

Answer 10

if the marriage is a mistake for either partner then get the hell out of it, if somebody can cheat on their partner then they would be somebody i would'nt trust. so to answer your question affairs are bad.