me and my boyfriend have sexlife since 2002 and I got almost everytome an orgasm (from 10 sex 4 orgasm aprox) but now we had some relationship issues but we are trough with it but since than it is hard to me to get started! He is very patient but I am affraid that he will get bored to do everything!! 3 mounths ago I started allmost everytime and I wasnt thinking about it (how it will be will I enjoy it or when will end) and before I didnt put these Q-s!!
What changed??? Cuz if I convince myself to get on it I enjoy it!!
Why is hard to get started?????????????
I hope U will understand something clear!!!
I cant write I feel exactly???
2006-10-31 21:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by L...A... 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
have had the same thing going. might be different reasons. for me - at the bottom of it all - i worked out that i was scared getting pregnant.
that is a very short version of a very deep problem. i hope you still might understand and give it a thought
2006-10-31 21:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think stress or depression is causing this problem. Especially since you said it happened after a relationship problem. And you may also be feeling insecure about the relationship or yourself in general. For instance, if you put on weight you may feel ugly inside which would keep entering your mind at a time when you are getting intimate with your partner instead of just relaxing and enjoying the moment. Take time to see what is bothering you and work on your self esteem. Everyone should feel good about themselves. Not one person in this world is perfect.
2006-11-01 06:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by beautyofthesea 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared to start having sex,,its great for the guys to have the females start it!! you gotta mix it up. Let him start then you start. if you start it,,GO 4 It Enjoy it!!!
Great sex life sicne 2002 ,,isnt sex great thou with the right partner!
2006-11-01 08:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by cvcrcr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your deffinatly not alone!!! Did you know about 90 % of women in America is like that? Did you ever think maybe stress could be doing it? I know that sometimes stress will do that to ya!!! Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 05:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably stress. Relax and enjoy.
2006-11-01 10:08:45 · answer #5 · answered by Pencil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋