behind your back saying lies or spreading rumores or beliveing 1 and not having the balss to go ask the person there talking about if thats true. What purpose does it server to be like that. who does it help does it make them feel good inside to hurt other people then if it does they need help,y do people have to be like that. Dont they have enough balls to be a true friend, or do the have to be ones that are your convient friends who will back stab u in a heartbeat. What is the world coming to if u cant have a friend without worring about being hurt or betrayed. Have we strayed so far that we cant have a friend or like someone without wanting to hurt someone else.If we cant fix this then God help us all.
2006-10-31 21:27:07 · 7 answers · asked by Kenshin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They're insecure.
2006-10-31 22:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by chi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yesterday my now EX best friend told a friend of mine I am jealous of her because she got pregnant before me. What hurt me the most, is that my husband just recovered from cancer and can no longer have children due to his chemo and radiation treatments. So for her to say something like that is absolutely devistating to me my family and our group of friends. Its very painful to know after 19 years of friendship she can reach so low and not only stab me in the back but make such a personal attack on my family with such a personl issue.
2006-11-02 19:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by ♠♣♥Rogue♣♥♠ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one that is a good question to answer this you most have to have this happen to you which i have and no it aint rigth for someone to talk behinde your back they should say it to you face and ask if its true and if their a friend they may belive you and tell the other person to stop talking bad about you and them
2006-11-01 06:26:20 · answer #3 · answered by short stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight to her! if you realy have a proof that shes betraying at your back! and if you discover that its true then talk to her ask her that you want her to be a friend but if still continuing that kind of attitude you better live her and pray for her that she will be change someday.bec. how can you continue a relationship to someone that you dont trust anymore bec. if you did he might just say anything again at your back.
2006-11-01 05:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"How come people who says there your friend and say your cool and stuff and whil your not there talking about u
behind your back.....
hm...
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people that do this
well,
i leave them to themselves
there is not enough drama in their lives
and
they like drama so much
that they create what they want.
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you may be around any type of person that you want too.
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can't you?
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2006-11-01 05:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I had 3 women that was supposed to be my friends do that to me, that is why I don't trust women so much, but I have NEVER had a guy do that to me.
2006-11-01 05:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what they are not your friends!
2006-11-01 05:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋