My husband told me that he was a vigin when we got together but I have a gut feeling that he has had sex in the past and that hes cheating on me should i trust my gut feeling?? Ive confronted my husband about it but he tells me that he wouldnt ever cheat on me.
2006-10-31 21:24:42 · 16 answers · asked by sweet_angel180 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I tell him i feel that way. that i think hes cheating he gets really mad and yells at me
2006-10-31 21:31:28 · update #1
okay me and him have are own cell phones and he will not let me touch it or talk on it without him in the same room right next to me he acts very secretive of his phone other stuff that makes me have gutt fealings
2006-10-31 21:39:09 · update #2
it depends.....do you trust your husband.....what makes you suspicious of him......you can hire a PI to have him followed to confirm or disprove your gut feeling........but if you trust then believe what he has told you.....innocent until proven guilty
2006-10-31 21:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tells you that he didnt .. then you should trust him ... Think about the trust you had on him before you married him ... be faithful.
However, it doesnot matter to be or not to be a virgin ... the only thing that can drive your marraige on secure paths is the love and faith you have on each other.
The farthest you can go to calm your fears is to get him checked for STDs ...
dont give words to your fears as it may destroy your married relationship. Atleast not till you are dead sure (and have evidences) that he is cheating on you.
You must evaluate your gut feeling under the light of proper circumstances and evidence. Only then you should take any drastic step.
Talk to him about the things that make you feel he had sex before. Maybe he'll have a valid reason to the situation which none of us might have come across.
2006-11-01 05:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Frank_walker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What men tell you and what they do are completly diff things. I think he's telling you what he thinks you want to hear. I would go with your gut feeling. As for him cheating on you, I don't know what to tell you except I know that he will lie to you if you ask him. You need to catch him red handed before you find out the truth and I hope for your sake that he is not cheating on. I hate men that do this. I just don't understand why. I mean they have a wife and family at home yet they still choose to go outside of their marriage and risk it all for what? A one night stand and herpies! I guess we will never understand men. I hope that all works out for you and you find out before it's to late. Good Luck and I hope it was just your gut and not the truth.
2006-11-01 05:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men are BORN lovers, and their talents lie in that field. So when they meet MRS.RIGHT, they make all the right moves to the point that she is left wondering if he has not walked down this road before.
I would suggest you smile and enjoy him, and unless he gives you a reason to distrust him, put those feelings on the FAR back burner...
2006-11-01 05:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take that gut feeling to walmart and see what they will give you for it...dont look for trouble where there is not. If you have some hard evidence then thats another story.
2006-11-01 05:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by Dirtydog 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men are very protective of their precious things, could be a mobile phone or a set of screwdrivers. you would'nt like it if he was to go through your phone being sneaky or wanted to listen as you talked on the phone. i can't say what the trademarks of a cheater are as i've never done it or even thought about it and can't do it, but i think you should accept his answer as the truth.
2006-11-01 05:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually your gut feeling is all ways right
2006-11-01 05:26:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to put the past behind u and dont start being paranoid.If he's doing something wrong tell him to his face
2006-11-01 05:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by bimby babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you have proof then there is nothing you really can do you could leave him and find out you were wrong and tehn what and as far as him being a virgin when you guys were married...old water under teh bridge let it go
2006-11-01 05:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,no dear,if he says that he was a virgin and he has nothing to lie about,I think he was telling the truth,now calm yourself and trust the man :-)
2006-11-01 05:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋