i thought i was over him but im not. i still think about him and to make things worse we have mutual friends. so we still hear about each others life. he's in a really bad relationship and im dating, so do i even make a move on him? im scared he may not respond to me the way i want him to. our mutual friends tell me he still asks about me but that's where it stops at, should i put myself out there?
2006-10-31 21:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, think of the reason you guys broke up. If it was something that the 2 of you getting back together would serve no purpose, then think again about getting back with him. If it was something silly and you didn't want to be apart anyway, then you need to see where his head is at also. If he is still asking about you then you may still be on his mind that way also, especially if he's in a bad relationship. If you still care for him, the only way to either move on with him or move on without him is to let him know your feelings. If you keep it inside then you may never know what could have been. And if he is done with you, then you can begin your process of moving on and making room for the right man to come into your life.
2006-10-31 21:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to approach him just as a friend and try to observe the responses he has for you. You can start by calling him and give him some hint that you often think about him. But you don't have to talk to this staff directly when you call or see him. You need to give some space and time and see if any thing change.
After this you may talk to him or the asking will come by him self.
Good Luck!!!
2006-10-31 21:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try. maybe he still have feelings for you or he just want to know whether you are alright. But if you think there's still a chance why not risk and make a move. He might just thinking the way you are and just scared that you don't respond the same way he wants you to. Goodluck.
2006-10-31 21:08:24 · answer #3 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't bother. You have moved on, and so has he. Whether or not his current relationship is bad is none of your concern. You should not get involved. And you definitely should not re-visit the past. He is probably your ex for a reason.
2006-10-31 21:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey stop thinking bout him,n frnds talks plz avoid it.be brave n talk to him directly it ll be gud 4 u n ur relationship...but i wonder why did you leave him wen u stil ve feelins 4 him...just go ahead n have a peaceful talk wid out involving ne frns
2006-10-31 21:27:02 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_pal85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life and move on, girl.
2006-10-31 21:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by badboy22bs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know how to do Voodoo, why not to try.
2006-10-31 21:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw his brains out!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-31 21:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by GW.BUSH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋