i have a best friend. she is a good girl but she doesn't share her feelings, secrets and jokes with me. for name sake, she calls me as her best friend.. i feel like i hav no friends at all....she talks to another girl named ranjini than me...and sometimes she doesn't even talk to me...i don't want her to know the way i feel, when she is with others...so, i made another friend named megha, and she got impressed with my best friend.. megha also started to hang out with my best friend and ranjini..all three of them became very close and i feel like i am leftover..but they don't know that i feel like this and even i don't want them to know about the way i feel...wat do u think i should do?plz help..........
2006-10-31 20:01:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is really very simple. Speak up' tell your best friend how you feel. If you are her best friend she will talk it over with you and set you straight. If she refuses to talk to you or gives you the cold shoulder she is not the friend you thought she was. Chalk it up as a life lesson' move on and find another friend.
2006-10-31 20:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe their personality don't match from yours. You might want to talk to them and ask what is the problem. There might things that they don't like about it and rather find other friends than you. Take time to think is there something wrong with you. Tell them what you are feeling. There also circumstances that you are just taking it too seriously but it is not really what you think. Be more friendly. Find other friends. Maybe they are not the friends that are meant for you.
2006-11-01 04:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are 2 cases:
1. They are sleaze type, so they all like each other... than u...
2. If normal situation - then u need to re-evaluate ur position, maybe u are introvert or do not know how to hang out or interact like 'the flow' --- (LOOK n LEARN)
2006-11-01 04:07:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sid Has 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends are going to stay just that....best friends. Whatyou're going to have to do is go out and get a GIRLFRIEND first...then introduce them to your other friends. If they don't like you in a sexual way...(Any male that wants to "share their feeling" is just asking for sex pretty much......sorry, "sharing your feelings" is only going to make you look like an idiot and feel like one to.) Just be happy you have some friends. GO LOOK FOR A GIRLFRIEND!
2006-11-01 04:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but how old are you guys?
If your both in you teens then i would say that this is just part of growing up, friends come and go.
If your already out of your teens then mabey she isnt really a true friend, find another one
2006-11-01 04:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think any one can really answer that as that is a two way street! Put your best foot forward and be nice and considerate!
2006-11-01 04:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to work harder at being there let them know that you are there and try to talk to them about things they like what ever works for them jsut let them know that you are a live and would like to hang out with them i hope things work out and i know what im talk about cause its happen to me and i did this and it work for me so try it and see how it dose later
2006-11-01 06:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by short stuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those who r always honest n tell u exactly wat/who u r n give ideas/tips how u shld live. Pray tht u will always hve them as ur friend. Ask God to always bless them n keep them safe for u.
2006-11-01 04:34:08 · answer #8 · answered by kuti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you remind of me i'm i n the same place maybe because she reaaly isn't ur friend my advice try find someone new
2006-11-01 04:53:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for get you continue your friendship in same level deffinely she will turnup to you. notmally it happened every where. dont worry
2006-11-01 04:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by nisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋