i lovd a man so much, n he too lovd me, now he has told me tht he has a wife n such a darling baby..but he doesnt love his wife, try as he might,he wants to divorce her .am i doing wrong? in loving him i cant help it, but i dont want to hurt his wife n baby......
2006-10-31 19:53:54 · 16 answers · asked by Misty G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are thinking in the right direction my friend. You shouldn't light your home by burning someone else's. And the guy who says that he doesn't love wife then why did he marry her. Who knows he may say the same thing to someone other girl, after you get married to him.
I don't know who and how your lover is. So I can't comment on whether he is a good person or not. At the moment you are the best judge of the situation and I hope you make the right decision. Because this one decision could change your life for better or for worse. Good luck.
2006-10-31 20:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by Friend 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in loving that man ur not doing anything wrong, but when he proposed u did he clearly told u that he is married! if he hasnt do so than he is not an honest person.
if he is ready to leave his wife & baby he is not doing good.
u just take some time and dont meet him for sometime.
it is not good to build of own world by destroying any one else life. his wife also loves him, think about her position
u may be good at heart, beautiful u will find any one else soon.
take some time.
life is good, it can give u else good partner perhaps better than him.
after sometime u may forget him.
do which is good for your and others life,
if u marry him i think u will spoil ur life.
it is not neccesary that if u love someone the same also loves u.
o.k. in both the way practicle & emotiional way dont marry him.
have a nice time,
2006-10-31 20:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Misty, this man is a dog. I am sorry for his family and you. First of all he will always have a bond with his wife because they have a child. You cannot change that. Second of all, if he cheated on her,what makes you think he will not cheat on you? Yes it is wrong. If he truly wants to be with you,then he needs to break away from her first before you can even have a true relationship.All of you will be hurt if you do not back off the situation. When you play with fire,you will get burned. Good Luck
2006-10-31 20:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Shortydeb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he will cheat on his wife with you, then he will cheat on you with someone else. He wants his cake and eat it too. If he has a baby by his wife, then he is sleeping with his wife, but he wants in your pants too.
And he is telling you that he is trying to get his wife to let him have a divorce, but is he really??? He could be telling you anything just to get in your pants.
Get away from him and find someone that is single and you will be a lot better off, believe me. You don't want to cause a marriage to break up.
2006-10-31 20:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"According to spirituality"? You make it sound as if "spirituality" had some specific body of dogma! It doesn't. It's a vague term that's used to encompass just about everything from watching a sunset to conducting an elaborate church service. By the way, Hinduism is a religion whether you like it or not.
2016-05-23 01:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will say anything. Just remember it will come back to haunt you. He will give the same story to another when he gets "bored". Hopefully, you will not be like his poor wife....with a baby. Move on girl.
2006-10-31 20:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you live with yourself if you break up a family? Are you sure that he isn't just telling you that he doesn't love his wife to get what he wants from you? And if he is cheating with you don't you think that he could do that to you too????
2006-10-31 19:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by lilrocnangel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW! RUN.......RUN.......RUN!
You are not in a good place right now. Cut it off now...don't hesitate. Find someone who is single and willing to give you what you deserve and that is a normal relationship. This married guy is giving you the same crap all married men give their mistresses. You will make yourself miserable if you continue and he won't help you leave either. He will never be with you...ever! Love yourself enough to leave him and find someone new. Please, don't destroy your integrity in love. God bless and good luck.
2006-10-31 20:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by honeybee4u2c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you are wrong,leave this man alone since you dont want to hurt wife and baby.
2006-10-31 20:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to ask yourself is, if he can split with his wife and baby, can/will he do it to you as well? You have to make the choice.
2006-10-31 20:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by Benelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋