he said ( Hey hey their playboy!) we where both alone in a big room and for him to say that to me which im a male too what does this mean do i make a Move or best not to Say nothing at all because its at work could it be set up or is he hitting on me could anyone tell me what does this mean and what should i do?
2006-10-31 19:41:42 · 10 answers · asked by Randy s 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
...I'll just answer your question on it's merits.
Best to get a base for approach first. I would not be trying anything as u could get into a lot of trouble. Ask him what he meant by playboy and see what response u get...if this does not get the desired response and u are unsure still...then take care, cos it's work...if not ask one of the girls at work about him...they can always tell.
2006-10-31 19:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by 67ImpalaSS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing, maybe colleuges told him you ar gay. They could be having a laugh. Depends on wehter you are out or not.
I would leave it for a couple of weeks and get to know him gradually. Most offices go for drinks and stuff, this would be a good chance to suss him out.
Make sure you go for a p1ss together see if he looks at you.
2006-11-01 18:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by SunGod 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I have to say is that you should separate work from your private life.Office romances rarely work and even if it was a fling, once the fling is over there is usually feelings that distract you from work.
Was he hitting on you?Maybe.Maybe not.I would suggest seeking a friendship and only a friendship.
2006-11-01 03:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all, remember that if he is a temp, this job is not too important for him, so if he screws up, it's fine. for you, the job may be much more important, a career, someplace you will need references from in the future, so don't do anything stupid! good luck!
2006-11-01 05:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be careful, I was set up one time at work and got embarrased moments, it was a bad experience.
Just wait...and see
2006-11-01 08:58:05 · answer #5 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirt back with him
2006-11-01 22:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST GO WITH THE FLOW
2006-11-01 04:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seek professional help.
2006-11-01 03:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 8⤋
don't get your honey where you get your money.
2006-11-01 04:06:50 · answer #9 · answered by tim s 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
GO WITH YOUR OWN SPECIES
2006-11-01 06:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by someone 1 · 0⤊ 8⤋