I am a cancer and my girl is virgo,r we compatible,can anyone tell me the pros and cons of our relationship?

Question

i want to know the similarities and diffrences of a cancer male and virgo female,and if possible,how to resolvr them?

Answer 1

When Cancer and Virgo make a love match, a strong, down-to-earth relationship with staying power is the happy result. This is a relationship with great potential to get better and better over the passing years. Both Cancer and Virgo are goal-oriented and disciplined. They are sincere and devoted to one another and share a strong sense of purpose. No lightweight love here: These two were not really built for flings! Cancer and Virgo deeply admire one another: Virgo respects Cancer's quiet strength and dedication while Cancer appreciates Virgo's keen adaptability and intelligence.

These lovers may get off to a slow start, but over time, bonds will only grow stronger. The Cancer-Virgo love match prides itself on common sense and strong principles over fluff and inconsequential or fleeting connections. They enjoy the material comforts of life, but they will only feel good about their bounty if it has come as a result of honest hard work. There could be tiffs if Virgo becomes too critical for Cancer's easily bruised feelings; Cancer needs to understand that it's just Virgo's nature to point out what they observe, that it's not a personal attack. A Virgo may bristle at their Cancer mate's stubborn streak, but it's a trait that a patient and understanding love partner like Virgo could come to appreciate. Also, Virgo's urge to serve suits Cancer's affectionate, nurturing nature well.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and Mercury (Communication) rules Virgo. Though they're very different planets, they're both near the Sun and therefore always in one another's neighborhoods. The Moon is a mothering influence; it's about cultivation and fostering growth, which are both central concerns for Cancer. Mercury is all about communication, and it's an androgynous energy -- Virgo will adapt and take on the form that it chooses, the guise that best serves a situation. Virgo takes an intellectual approach to life (especially compared to the emotional Cancer), but still manages to be perceptive and intuitive enough to figure others out if they choose. Good thing for the Crab, then, that a Virgo mate can get a feel for devotion and domestic fulfillment if that's what their Cancer lover desires. These two won't argue about fulfilling one another's needs. They'll work at it and relish the rewards of their conscientiousness. Cancer is a Water Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Earth Signs, true to their name, are down-to-earth, but they can also be materialistic and preoccupied with acquisition. The Cancer-Virgo love partners like to surround themselves with comfortable, well-crafted things. Water Signs rely on feeling and intuition, making Cancer the emotive force behind this relationship, in a subtle Cancer way, of course. Along with their desire for prosperity, their love of a fancy home life ensures that this couple will work hard toward this shared goal. Also, they're practical pair, and losing control is never really an issue.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. While Cancer gets things going, Virgo thrives on a changing routine of responsibilities and challenges. Because they're so ubiquitous, Virgo will find a place in Cancer's plans if they really want to. Virgo will keep in mind Cancer's plans, and will eventually bring results even if Cancer has moved on.

What's the best aspect of Cancer-Virgo relationship? Their dedication to working toward the same goals. Both partners in this love match enjoy a stable home life and nice things, and Virgo truly enjoys helping Cancer along the way to achieving their goals. Their shared goals and desires make theirs a highly compatible love match.

Cancer male
The Cancer male may often be moody, but he is rarely mean...his moods being the meanest when he is the most afraid of losing something or someone. An extreme romantic, he is not always confident of his own attractiveness. Nonetheless, he understands women very well and is fond of children. The Cancer man is kind but, contrary to popular opinion, is not soft. Basically, this is a one-woman man who will sulk privately for days when his feelings are hurt and is best left alone when he is "down." Too much sympathy tends to make the Cancer male brood. He is far too deep to be able to sum-up on first acquaintance and snap judgments should not be made about this man. Women tend to like his sense of humor and his outlook on the world, but he can put on an act of geniality to hid his own feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. It takes a long time to truly get to know the Cancer male. He will be an amusing and gallant escort or sweetheart (if he wishes to be), but is very difficult to pin down. This man often avoids a serious relationship for as long as possible and even then, will enter into it with great trepidation. If he believes he has found the right partner, then he will settle blissfully into married life. However, if he suspects he has chosen the wrong woman, then he can be impossible. Saving money is substantially more attractive to the Cancer male than spending it. Though not exactly miserly, he does think twice before splurging and this man's sense of humor seldom includes the topic of cash. Money is no laughing matter to the Cancer male, who could probably add a column of figures in his head before he learned the alphabet and most likely had a paper route by the time he was eleven years old. The man who falls under the jurisdiction of this sign has a rather interesting idea of economy. He would rather go to the best restaurant and get what he pays for than risk offending his sensitive tastes with over-cooked food and indifferent service in a second rate establishment. By the same token, he thinks it is silly to waste money on a cloth coat when a mink will amortize itself over the years. In short, quality and thrift are synonymous to the Cancer male.
The Cancer male tends to be somewhat subjective in emotional matters, often unable to see anything from an objective point of view when he becomes upset. Nevertheless, he is usually generous with his affection and craves lots of affection in return...frequently feeling bitterly deprived if he does not get it. In short, words of love are music to his ears. Most girlfriends and wives of Cancer men find their mate to possess much sex-appeal, but any partner needs to learn that the male of this Sign likes to be left alone without question when he feels the need to sort out problems. Flattery will not work with this man unless there is a genuine desire to please him and no attempt is being made to achieve a personal end. He can be deeply hurt, so any quick and thoughtless criticism or reproof should be restrained. The Cancer male is attractive...but he is ulikely to believe it. Thus, it is necessarily to constantly boost his ego. This man will probably be quite a good cook and will almost certainly delight in stories regarding his family tree. Photography is a common hobby among Cancer males and few will live their lives without owning at least one camera. In general, Cancer men are courtly, courteous and considerate. They dress well (albeit conservatively) and generally hate to stand out in a crowd. When at home (which is usually often), they enjoy the comfort and security of dressing-down in their favorite, worn-in clothing which they rarely alter. There is an inherent tendency here to hate being in the spotlight and a Cancer male will do almost anything in order not to attract surplus attention. He prefers to be secure in all things and may regard unwontedly personal discussions as a breach of that security. Unfortunately, Cancer men have a tendency to be gloomy at times, disparaging everything and everybody. Almost without exception, a male born under the jurisdiction of Cancer will have a very close relationship with his mother...and those who do not will probably be totally alienated from them. Cancer men love to be babied by females...even though they are unlikely to admit it.

Cancer males have marked mechanical and artistic abilities. They are apt to devote much of their time to working out new principles and perfecting new ideas. While these are indeed excellent traits, Cancer men are prone to carry them to extremes. These males belong mainly to the manufacturing sphere of life and they are positively shrewd in all business matters, having a good head for business. Cancer males wish to be recognized as being thoroughly competent to perform whatever duties entrusted to them. They possess a natural feeling of responsibility and dislike to be hampered or restricted in any fashion. Cancer men can be ruled by kindess, but are sure to resent the least semblance of compulsion. They should strive to associate themselves with those who have more projective and progressive minds...people who can see the necessity of departing from the established custom.

The Cancer male has a natural tendency toward the beautiful and artistic in all things. As a result, some highly talented musicians, artists and professional people have been born under this Sign. They have considerable literary ability and often make excellent judges, lawyers, physicians and brilliantly magnetic speakers. Some of the finest scholars and students have been governed by Cancer...to say nothing of some of the most wealthiest men in the world. Because of the maternal aspect of the Moon (Cancer's ruling planet), the Cancer male has an overwhelming need to protect himself and his family. Though generally domestic and peaceful, he possesses strong emotional drives and will refuse to sit still when loved ones are threatened. As a father, the Cancer male will be caring, gentle, sympathetic and understanding. He will have infinite patience with his children, genuinely interested in everything they do and spend countless hours entertaining them. He will be proud of his sons and fiercely protective of his daughters. When his children do become independent, the Cancer man may show signs of crankiness. In short, the Cancer male is prone to rebel against his children's desire to experiment with the outside world, preferring to believe that they will lean on him forever.

Virgo female
The Virgo female usually has a strongly developed maternal instinct and makes for a very devoted wife and mother. Counted among the best housekeepers, she is economical and delights in having her home and personal belongings tasteful as well as elegant. This is a woman who will be extremely precise...even to the point of fussiness. Clean and chaste in thought, most Virgo females display expressions of purity and virtue. There is normally a certain fascinating sweetness lingering in the eyes and about the mouth. Females governed by this Sign love those who are pure in mind and who possess characters which are just and true. Thus, they tend to dislike the baser instincts associated with the male population and are apt to find marriage something of a disappointment. Nonetheless, the magnetism of the Virgo woman is very marked and once she has gained an influence over another person, she will rule absolutely. Although the heart of this female will not go out to the world in general, she is likely to be very loving and affectionate toward those of whom she is fond. If one single word could describe the Virgo woman, it would probably be discriminating. She demands action rather than words and quickly seeks commitment in any relationship.
With a love of finery, dress, society and display, women who fall under the jurisdiction of Virgo will resort to any honorable means in order to gratify their desires in these areas. Likely to be a leader of fashion...if circumstances permit...she will always show excellent taste in the selection of wearing apparel. These women harbor much respect for the beautiful coupled with an outstanding perception of color, which often develops into artistic talent and may be displayed in their use of a needle, brush and pencil. Floral arrangements and home decoration are their particular specialities. This female is blessed with a quick and accurate eye which enables her to excel in any profession which utilizes such gifts. This woman is not one to be trifled with and she truly knows what she is all about. It would be a grave mistake to underestimate this female. She will set goals and overcome any odds to achieve them. The most enlightened Virgo woman is one who has developed both her intellectual and spiritual sides. Such a female is extremely powerful, magnetic and charming...one who could possibly sway an entire nation, if not the entire world.

Acccommodating and adjustable, this woman may basically be a shy individual, but such will not deter her from overcoming life's obstacles. If some flaw or imperfection is perceived in a relationship, then she will have no hesitation in breaking the bond. When annoyed, females who fall under the jurisdiction of this Sign can be shrewd and fussy and they are certainly nobody's fool. However, this woman can be won over with grace and taste rather than physical charms. The approach to life here is direct. Virgo women can be pessimistic and critical souls but somewhat earthy in their judgments. This is one of the few female types of the Zodiac who can be trusted in every way. Often possessing the reasoning powers customarily associated with males, the Virgo woman refuses to adopt a veneer of helpless feminine charm...although she is usually feminine in appearance. Severe in her moral judgments, this woman is frequently good at hiding such, presenting a smiling face to the world and always pleasant on the surface. By no means a spoil-sport, being tolerant and wise in many ways, the Virgo female does possess such high standards for herself that she often seethes with inner tension. In addition, this woman will probably have a tendency toward hypochondria. She is so centered on being perfect that she is inclined to imagine ailments and diseases whenver she feels the slightest bit out of sorts. In truth, however, the Virgo female rarely requires medicine at all and usually lives a long and useful life...frequently appearing much younger than she actually is.

Intellectual by nature and blessed with a gift of language...or even the powers of a retentative memory which helps her pass examinations...this female is something of an academic type which can be threatening to many ordinary males. Nonetheless, this is a woman who does possess sex-appeal and is often counted among the prettiest females of the Zodiac. She will also be lively and vivacious well into old age. The woman governed by Virgo will have a quick and alert mind but can be something of a snob. Regardless, she respects all the old-fashioned virtues and is one of most subtle and delicately cast women of the entire Zodiac. As a mother, she will be relatively indulgent, taking infinite pains to understand her children. As a wife, she will constantly strive for perfection in every way...backing her partner in each endeavor while making every effort to be self-effacing.

Best Wishes and Good Luck :-)

Answer 2

My bf is a virgo and im a cancer so I can help u out. Pros- we always have a good time and we always laugh and joke around. when u get together we like to make each other happy and the conversation is always good and the sex is great.
Cons-Virgos are sometimes hard to compromise with, the always want things done their way and it can be really hard sometimes to get them to do otherwise because they are very stubborn.Cancers are stubborn too, probably more than virgos, we tend to think we are right in everything and when I tell my bf something he protest. But out of all those diff we dtill maintain a good relationship

Answer 3

I am Cancer, My Lover is Virgo

Refined, elegant Virgo is a superb communicator and fabulous conversationalist. Virgos make great writers; they are so precise about language. You may find yourself falling in love fairly soon, for Virgo is an earth sign and Cancer is water -- a fertile combo if there ever was one!

Astrologic textbooks like to make Virgos out to be dusty and dull because they have a shy or reserved quality. "Fine, underestimate me," Virgos say quietly to themselves. They like to take you by surprise with a torrent of passion on a dark, starry night. Make no mistake, Virgo can be a very skilled and ardent lover, especially when matched with an emotionally rich Cancer.

On a day-to-day, mundane level you also groove well. Virgos are practical, organized, and have the same security needs you do. They aren't nearly as moody as you are, thus provide strong grounding that withstands your ups and downs. You both are world-class worriers, so neither one will be able to calm the other down. Hopefully, you won't worry about the same thing at the same time! When upset, your upper stomach hurts, but Virgos' weak spot is the lower stomach. Neither of you can eat heavy foods and usually prefer light home cooking with plenty of vegetables.

Virgos are patient, even-tempered, and polite to a fault. They never squander money and they are exceptionally hard workers who always get ahead. Virgo is also ethical and can be counted on to do the right thing. That includes being faithful to you -- Virgos don't fool around.

With their sweet attentiveness, tender care, and lively wit, they will be a joy to be around! On this pairing I say yes, yes, yes!

Answer 4

You attract each other. Cancer is gentle. Virgo understanding. Cancer loves home and family. Virgo knows how to keep a good home. Cancer worries too much. Virgo doesn't like that aspect. But Cancer doesn't like constant criticism from Virgo. However, this combination can lead to a well-matched team.

Answer 5

It depends on who casts your respective horoscopes. Perhaps you could delve into astrology a little deeper, and get more detailed information other than just your astrological signs. You can get more accurate information by someone who is an actual astrologer, one who can tell you the particular characteristics of you as a Cancer and your girl as a Virgo. It could be a lot more accurate for you that way.

Answer 6

The pros are that you are both alive and sexual beings. The con is that you believe in astrology.

Answer 7

it all depends on your personality