Go jogging, cycling, for 40 minutes before bedtime or after dinner.
Do NOT eat a meal before bedtime. Dine at least three hours before attempting sleep. If you are a red meat eater, go vegetarian, or at least change to fish and eat lighter meals. Drink more fluids, but ease up toward bedtime.
Record natural sounds you find soothing: the sea, waves on rocks, lapping on shore; birds in a forest; rain on a metal roof; a ticking Grandfather pendulum clock; a river babbling over smooth rocks.
Commercial variants are available on CD and cassette.
Avoid the costly psychobabbler, "counselor", the-rapist, versions. Unless you are completely attracted by and to the
speaker's voice and choice of music you will be disappointed and very much out of pocket. These trendy examples of rip-off
political correctness are mostly worthless.
Music that soothes, music you like, is always a good backgrounder. Avoid lively radio, but. It can stimulate.
Avoid also alcohol, more than two standard glasses of wine. These also are stimulants.
Flowers, lavender pot plants, lavender incense are good to have
by your bed.
An airline style eye-mask and blackout curtains to block our daylight, and heavy drapes to soften outside ambient noise are
helpful for daytime sleepers. Even while asleep, our senses are
alerted by and responsive to noise. We mightn't wake, but the noise disturbs, lessens curative deep sleep.
So, there you are, warm bathed - using soft baby lavender soap (Johnsons has one) or lavender bath oil, soothing music, cocoa
cup or herb tea, body gently worked from exercise, good thoughts flowing, tensions easing, weariness waves wafting.
Slip between sheets you find sensual, luxurious: cool cotton if you reminisce over boarding school days; sinewy satin if you
really unwind, look forward to sleep on the promise of sexy dreams; profile hemp for its nautical, sensual rough feeling if
you enjoy the challenge of tactile dreams. Anything, as long as the texture gives you incentive to want to sleep, in the way that sometimes waking in the middle of an intense and pleasurable dream you so want to return to sleep to get back to the dream, see how it works out, specially if you're the centre of attention.
Of course, you've chosen the pillow or pillows that suit you best: soft, plumped, hard, big, small, contoured, downy, foamy.
Play your recording back on a timer-cassette or CD or Minidisk player as you relax into bed with a whimsical, fun, novel - like a Leslie Thomas book, or a romance, but not a stimulating book like a crime novel or a Tom Clancy or Robert Ludlum work; have a glass of warm water with perhaps a few drops of lemon, or the usual chamomile and passionflower, Valerian, tea; keep a pad and pencil beside your bed to jot down any worrying thoughts, memos, reminders, residual probs and puzzles from the day - this effectively sorts niggling thoughts neatly and puts them aside to be literally slept on and dealt with if they are still important when you waken; light a lavender scented candle in a bedside bowl, keep it alight while you meditate, dwelling on wishes, good things....
- and make sure you extinguish the candle along with your night or bedside lamp....
.......dab two or three drops of Lavender Oil on your temples, a drop or two sprinkled on your headboard, or on a tissue or cloth inside your pillow.
Lavender is great. But use it sparingly. Best put only the smallest amount in pillow, on bedhead, take special care on skin, one or two drops at first, build up if necessary. Lavender is a potent sleepmaker as well as insect repellant and moth and silverfish retardant.
An' that's a bonus if you're plagued by moths and silverfish in bed.
Sweet dreams.
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