2006-10-31 16:59:18 · 12 answers · asked by jen 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Why cant a child have a better future ......these days people play too many deceptive games ......Shame on you
2006-10-31 17:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by Buda B 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The baby belongs to both of you. Of course you will keep your baby and he is the Father of it, so he has to be involved and is involved, like it or not. You just say, "We are having a baby." I will need your love, and help and support for OUR baby. Whether you get married is not important right now. But you are having a baby together. He is the Father and you will be the Mother. Tell him you will not consider giving it up for adoption, because it is your baby. You are carrying it, and you conceived it together, so the baby belongs to both of you. Take good care of yourself, and know that 9 months is a short price to pay for 99 years of life that you will be giving to your child. (We hope it lives 99 years.) The baby needs a Mother and a Father, and will all its life. So, like it or not, you are both about to become parents!
You will love it - I guarantee!!! (Grandmother of 8)
2006-11-01 01:17:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mz Liz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just tell him you are keeping the baby, he has no say in the matter, it is your body. You are doing a great thing by keeping the baby, do not let anyone talk you out of it.
2006-11-01 01:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was 19 when i fell pregnant and i knew my partner didnt want a child so i said to him. I am keeping the baby i dont want anything from you if you dont want a part in the babys life thats fine by me we dont need you i will do it all by myself. 21 months after the birth we are still together.
2006-11-01 01:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by cheekykim17 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Every suggestion so far is a good one, except NO Compromise.
Either the the baby, or bye bye, see you in court for child support
Just my opinion about the court thing. That would be a personal decision based on your circumstances.
2006-11-01 01:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by bob h 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is your decision. Of course you should keep it if thats how you feel. Tell him to like it or let him go. The baby is more important. He shouldnt have sex if he is not prepared to deal with the consequences.
Congrats and good luck.
2006-11-01 01:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by Boo Boo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him at the Child Support hearing
2006-11-01 01:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Michael L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I'm keeping my baby
2006-11-01 01:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him straight out - that you are keeping the baby no matter what.
2006-11-01 01:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just tell him and if he dont like it oh well theres child support.
watch the movie "nine months"
2006-11-01 02:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋