I am not qulified, no bank balance, and my family background are not so good means average, and i am very much scare to marry in this situation (looking to the future), but only i have i think a good lovable and honest heart, any one tell me can i got a good girl to marry?
2006-10-31 16:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
where are you from? why can't you make your own decisions?
by the way, it isn't about the job or the money. at least not to most people. it is all about personality & compatability. before you get married or really think about it, you need to find that special someone to marry. pushing things won't help, either.
you need to tell your parents that this is 2006 & it is your life, so mind their own business.
2006-10-31 16:58:29 · answer #1 · answered by christy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't get married just to get married - that's a bad idea, and often leads to divorce. Get married if you find someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with.
I'm 29 and divorced. I got married when I was 19 for the pure fact of getting married. A few months later, my wife left me. There wasn't anything to the marriage to keep it together. I barely knew her, but like I said, I wanted to get married, so I asked her to marry me. Why she agreed, I will never know why (I doubt she knows why).
Marriage takes a lot of work, both getting there, and maintaining it. You need a good reason to want to fight to stay married, and getting married just to be married is not a good reason.
2006-10-31 17:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in America you are too poor and American girls like nice things and you cant support them. you sound like you want an American girl to support you. Your kindness and good heart is not good enough. If i saw you around my sister I would beat your azz with rods made in Malaysia. Marry a girl in your own country she is used to this kind of salary.
2006-10-31 17:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by Agnon L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you parents still telling you how to run your life at age 28? If you want to progress further in your career first, before thinking about marriage, that is entirely sensible and completely up to you.
2006-10-31 16:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u settle down n life financially before plunging into marriage. trouble over finances are also one of the main reasons for failure of marriages.
2006-10-31 17:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Leo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your 28,do they tell you when to change your underwear?Socks?Marry when YOUR ready.
2006-10-31 17:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
so get married if you want to.
2006-10-31 16:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋