2006-10-31 16:54:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unless u have children together to talk about, u shouldn't be communicating with your ex at all.
2006-10-31 16:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for your ex, then that's not too bad. All relationships leave some feelings and memories.
But to take it to the next level and communicate willingly and knowingly to your ex while you're still married?
That's cheating both your husband, yourself and your marraige.
Get honest with yourself first, then and only then, can you possibly be honest with anyone else.
Good luck.
2006-10-31 17:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by harttattoo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are married and you want to communicate with your ex, then that my friend is a big red flag. Have your feelings for him, but stay away from him and focus on the one you said "I DO" too. Dont be a miss-service to your honey or yourself.
2006-10-31 16:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
communicating with your ex isn't a problem, having feelings is... confess to your spouse, back off and live your life, you both had your time, it's not a revolving door marriage or does you spouse do the same?
2006-10-31 17:05:39 · answer #4 · answered by brian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not being fair to your wife or your ex. It is deceitful and unacceptable. How would you feel if your wife was still having an emotional relationship with her ex?
2006-10-31 16:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by grneyz 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My take is you're seriously asking for trouble...and you know this or you wouldn't be troubled enough by it to be asking strangers for advice. If you don't have children with this person STAY AWAY...FAR AWAY. Concentrate on your marriage. Remind yourself what you love about this person and love him (or her). Pray about it. It's the best thing you can do.
2006-10-31 17:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by valducci53 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, visit your accountant and financial advisor. They will tell you if you can afford to give up half of all your stuff. Remind them to count for additional rental expenses, you won't be staying in your home anymore. Then proceed merrily on your way.
Wait a sec, you're a woman? In that case do whatever you like. No one can fault you for acting irresponsibly.
2006-10-31 17:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by carnuba50 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, if you truly love you wife with all your heat and soul, you really shouldn't have ANY kind of feelings for anyone else. And you wouldn't be asking this question either.
2006-10-31 17:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It probably is not a good idea. Doesn't seem like any good can come of it. Be careful, be honest and be faithful.
2006-10-31 17:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to clear it up...
2006-10-31 16:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋