Could i be pregnant? confused, need help?

Question

I am sexualy active and use a condom everytime, yet i have not had my period since July 27th, about 3 months. Just yesterday and today i have seen little blood spots. i have taken two at home pregnancy tests and both came out negative. I also have no signs of pregnancy. But im still very confused. Im afraid that maybe im going through spotting. Could it jus be a light period becuase of soo much stress of maybe being pregnant? im 15 and usualy my periods are regular but a few times i have had periods 2 months apart. Please Help

Answer 1

First of all, you are way too young to be having sex! Sorry if I sound like your mom but it is true. Usually those pregnancy tests are very accurate, you may be irregular. Because of that you may need to go to a OBYN to get your period regulated. One of the ways they do it is with birth control pills. That way you will be solving two things: regulate your period and protecting yourself better against pregnancy (use condoms as well to avoid any diseases). Just relax, take another test, if it is negative talk to your mom to take you to an OBYN to control your period. Good luck and I hope you make smart choices in your life, sex is great but you need to be smart to enjoy it and not getting affected by it.

Answer 2

It might be stress dear - 15 year olds DO experience stress. I'm sure school and what not has an impact on that.

Are you physically active in sports? There are many athletic gals who play sports an actually do not have periods for the longest time - a lot of the very athletic gals I went to school with hardly had any periods, if any.

It could also be your body still trying to regulate out, depending on how old you were when you first started your period. It comes right along with the lovely effects of puberty.

If you don't get your period soon, take another test. If it is still negative, talk to your doctor and see if they can do a blood test - and try to figure out why your period is missing in action.

Good for you for using condoms everytime though.

Answer 3

There can be a number of reasons besides pregnancy why your periods are irregular. If you are sexually active, you should be seeing a gynecologist for regular checkups. Besides condoms, you should also be using a second form of birth control, like the pill. Now would be a good time to make a doctor's appointment to get everything checked out. Odds are you are not pregnant (two negative tests) but you should find out for sure.

Answer 4

Hun, you shouldn't even be having sex!! Anyhow, just because you use all the protection in the world will not prevent you from being pregnant. If you were so worried, you wouldn't have sex! Most people who are don't show in first trimester (such as my wife). Granted, it may be a light period, but you should tell your parents and look for a planned parenthood site or schedule a doctor's appointment to find out for sure. Home pregnancy tests aren't always accurate.

Answer 5

yes the stress of thinking you are pregnant could mess your cycle up. If you were using protection then you prob arent pregnant. Also your still pretty young and your cycles might change a few times before they get completly regular. I went through a time when I was 15 and 16 of having my period like every 2 weeks to then not get it for like 40 days, then finally in my later teen years my cycle became more like the average 28 days.

Answer 6

It's clear that at 15 you are way too young to handle the possible consequences of having sex. If you decided to be sexually active that means that you were ready to accept what comes with it, especially if it's unprotected - STDs, HIV, teen pregnancy... Because sex is not just about fun and being with guys, and fooling around. Did you think what would happen if you got pregnant and the guy didn't want to take responsibility? And that's what happens in most cases, it's you who pays the price - you deal with pregnancy or abortion and trust me, abortion destroys your life forever. I know you think differently now but when you get older and mature enough you'll understand and regret it.
I am saying this to help you, don't get me wrong but you are not ready emotionally and physically for sex, or financially to deal with its consequences such as a baby at 15. That's something grown-ups do. My advice to you is to enjoy your teen years, concentrate on school, hang out with friends - those are your best years, don't waste them on things like that, worrying about being pregnant and such.
Probably you're not pregnant because the home tests are pretty accurate but take better care of yourself, you know you deserve it.

Answer 7

The pregnancy test are usually accurate, but just to play it safe, you may want to talk to your mom about your concerns. She may be a little disappointed, but if you are pregnant, there is no one better to talk to about it. If you don' t have a mom that you could talk to, find a female adult that you can. It is best to know for sure, and if you are not having your period for that amount of time, you may want to go and see an OB about that anyways to make sure that nothing is wrong with your body!

Good Luck!

Answer 8

Well. To be honest. Ive had a lot of friends your age start stressing that they could be pregnant and that pro-longed their period for months. So. Get it off you mind. I know its hard to do. But concentrate on other things. If you STILL dont get it... talk to your mom. Go see a doctor. Dont be afraid. because if you wait to long it can be bad for the baby

Answer 9

Well since you are 15 and I am sure your parents would say the same thing, you have no business engaging in adult activities. You are a child...you need to be worrying about an education not sleeping around with little boys.

Answer 10

u r 2 young 4 having sex in ur lives..concentrate more on studying..sex is part of life..i no it gives plesure n u wil enjoy 4 a moment but that moment can b nasty in lifes smtimes..i really dont no abt dis stafs...but go n c a doctor..could b a good idea...cheers